I loved this book and really got a kick out of it. It's full of all kinds of different positions and ideas, and is written in a fun, friendly, informative manner. It's a good one to look through by yourself or with a partner. I would highly recommend this book.

Even if you're sexually skillful, you can stand to learn more illustrative and explanatory sexual contact.

For my fifth anniversary, I decided I needed to spice things up a bit and bought this book and a couple of others. Sex Deck: Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life- are a deck of "cards" designed with a position on front and the description on back. Was that an earthquake? The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex- is a fun flip over format with cunnilingus on one side and fellatio on the other. We enjoyed quite an anniversary romp and enjoyed reading Ride Um Cowgirl in bed later. It's not about impossible contortions but finding the best positions that work for both of you. It's all about making sex fun for both partners. These three items lived up to my hopes and expectations and sex before and after the anniversary has never been better.

It may sound corny but my boyfriend brought this book home and it's really revolutionized our sex life. For him it told him all the little things that we wish men knew but never remember to tell them because we just assume that they should know since it's so natural to us. Dr. Sadie really takes the guesswork out of giving each other pleasure. Thank you!

It may sound corny but my boyfriend brought this book home and it's really revolutionized our sex life. For him it told him all the little things that we wish men knew but never remember to tell them because we just assume that they should know since it's so natural to us. Dr. Sadie really takes the guesswork out of giving each other pleasure. Thank you!

You know the old joke that goes, "What ONE food causes a woman to lose her desire for sex?" and of course the answer is "wedding cake." Well, I've just found a way to reverse the ill effects of all those sugary carbs in a book called "Ride `em Cowgirl!" and WOW---hold on to your dear wife!

My bride and I followed Dr. Sadie's prescription and read the book together in bed, which was a lot of fun because we could look at all the ideas and positions and laugh, relax and rekindle (without relocating!). Dr Sadie's sure right about finding your best sex positions: it's not about contorting yourselves into rubbery Cirque du Soleil knots that leads to better sex---it's about SLIGHTLY adjusting your already favorite positions for more intimate, pleasurable contact. Now instead of being one trick ponies we've become a pair of bucking broncos. Whodathought?

We (okay, I) browsed in a bookstore and flipped through a bunch of sex position books, which is awkward when other shoppers suddenly appear in the same aisle, especially attractive young blondes looking at the `help me mend my broken heart' books on the very next shelf. Anyway, I ended up buying "Ride `em Cowgirl" on Amazon, which not only sounded like a good wedding cake antidote, but I wouldn't have to feel awkward handing it directly to yet another attractive blonde at the cashier's stand who'd undoubtedly ask if I'd like to join their eager-reader's discount book buying club, but would actually be thinking, "What kind of cowgirl does this guy think he is?" Amazon quickly delivered in a plain brown box with that cute smile under their logo that suddenly started looking more and more like a wicked little grin. That Bezos!

I digress. Those other books I'd flipped through in the store and left for someone else were either boring (really...how do you make sex BORING?), preachy, impractical, wordy (with no illustrations), illustrated (with cutesy position names), too clever for their own good, too dated to still be around, too expensive for what they delivered ... you get the picture. Yet, here's what it all really comes down to: DO YOU WANT BETTER SEX? If so, then this is your book. It's a perfect blend of advice and illustrations, funny and sexy all at the same time, easy and comfortable to read with your partner. And it works. Uhhhh, what's that, honey? Not now, I'm writing. Really? You're kidding! Right now? You're NOT kidding! Why, um ... of course, yeah, sure, wow, yes, absolutely!

It's been fun. Gotta ride...