Dating Rocks!: The 21 Smartest Moves Women Make for Love
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Dating Rocks is a 240 page dating manifesto that outlines everything a woman should do to find, date and keep a man -- from being aware of her physical appearance to honing her listening skills.
The best part of this book is Nakamoto's wit as he helps the reader along. As a former Dale Carnegie instructor, personal development trainer, and international tour director, Nakamoto knows how to tell a story. There's a rather amusing tale of how he and a friend had sworn off all women as gold-diggers since all of the women they encountered at an upscale nightclub would only go out with them once. A friend of theirs tells them, "The problem isn't that these women are gold-diggers. It's that you guys unfortunately can't afford them." Lesson to be learned from such wise words: don't try to place the blame for your lousy love life on someone or something else; be proactive, take control of your love life, and good things will follow. The book follows a rigid but successful format. Each chapter begins with a nifty quote from a major author or artist, past or present. For instance, Chapter 13 titled "Competition," opens with a quote from Margaret Halsey: "The great disadvantage of being in a rat race is that it is humiliating. The competitors in a rat race are by definition rodents." An honest male prospective that summarizes what is to be learned in the chapter follows these quotes. Nakamoto also includes an anecdote from his life such as the email he received from a woman complaining about an aspect of her dating life, followed by a list of steps on how to successfully accomplish whatever the theme of the chapter happens to be. Nakamoto, is not new to the "how to catch a man arena." His previous book, Men are like Fish: Everything a Woman Needs to Know about Catching a Man, was a funny, intelligent look at the dating scene with tips on how to not only initiate a great relationship but enhance the one you are in. In his latest book he offers an honest and refreshing male perspective that any woman can use if she finds herself in a dating slump. Unlike many of the dating books out there, he doesn't send the message that women should wait for a man to decide what he wants to do about being together but instead he teaches women how to be proactive when it comes to their love life. He tells them to put themselves first -- their needs, wants, and desires. Ladies, you can't get any better advice than that. In Dating Rocks you will find no catchy phrases and no antiquated ideals, just good solid advice (that may or may not net you a man), but along the way will provide you with a great deal of fun, insight and personal growth. Reviewed by Tamika Johnson for ForewordReviews.com |
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DON'T LET MEN CONTROL YOUR LOVE LIFE! Today's single woman has the majority of her dating frustrations and disappointments explained to her with the trendy phrase: He's really not that into you. But with a more proactive and positive perspective, Dating Rocks! shows women how to take charge of their own love destiny and not have to settle for whatever man or situation that comes their way. In an easy-to-understand format, you will discover how to effectively handle the most critical moves a woman can make in her love life including: . Love Yourself First . Find and Fix Your Dating Blind Spots . Avoid Losing Love Candidates . Stay Clear of Low Percentage Love Situations . Gauge Your Love Connection More Accurately . Create Unshakable Convictions of the Heart Steve Nakamoto serves as the dating/relationship expert advisor on iVillage.com's "Ask Mr. Answer Man" message boards. He is a former human-relations, communications, and personal-development trainer who has appeared on over 220 radio and television shows including NBC's The Other Half. Steve is also the author of the award-winning (Writer's Digest Nonfiction Book Awards) dating book, Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know about Catching a Man.
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| 07-30-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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Hello Steve,
I have just finished reading 'Dating Rocks!' and I want to thank you for the best insight I have ever received to enable me to become empowered in dating and for ultimately finding and creating the best chance for a lifelong love relationship. I just celebrated my 45th Birthday yesterday and coincidentally I also received my awesome book in the mail yesterday...although I wish I had this powerful insight many years ago I feel encouraged because I believe that it's never too late to live, learn and love...especially now with my newfound knowledge. The way you have laid out the guidelines~timelines have put it in the simplest, sincerest, and most intentional terms I have ever seen. Thank you so much!! In your book I have identified several areas that I need to work on to turn some of my weak areas into strengths and then I believe I will be ready to 'Rock!' Probably the hardest part about reading your book was that as I was approaching the end of it I only wished it could go on and on...this book will surely become a staple in my personal library as one of my 'reference books', as I plan to pull it out to refresh my memory and dating skills until I am finally blessed to meet 'the one'. Could you please send me your 'Bonus Special Report' mentioned at the back of your book. And thank you again and God bless you in all your future endeavors. Sincerely, Nina ps~ I would also highly recommend this as a 'must read' for any parents of young women as it is a great source of information to share with any young woman you would like to see empowered from the very beginning of her dating life. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-26 09:42:38 EST)
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| 04-21-08 | 4 | 1\1 |
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Having just been through the experience of not being called back after giving my phone number, Steve's book enlightened me that it probably wasn't me. Just back on the dating circuit, I feel like the guy I want to find is a needle in a haystack. Steve's book gives some ideas on how to isolate the search and make early, logical decisions about the potential success of a possible relationship.
I also enjoyed Steve's candidness with his trials and triumphs - I could relate to his experiences. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-31 07:59:23 EST)
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| 01-03-08 | 2 | (NA) |
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I was disappointed with this book. I wanted tips (after a long term relationship break-up) to get back into dating. I wasn't looking for a book on self esteem. Tips such as: stop living to please others, practice compassion, learn to laugh at yourself (I did that one a long time ago) are good self improvement tips, but if I wanted that kind of advice, I would read (again) Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People--a classic that hasn't been surpassed IMO. I wanted dating tips.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-25 11:34:12 EST)
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| 01-02-08 | 2 | 0\1 |
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I was disappointed with this book. I wanted tips (after a long term relationship break-up) to get back into dating. I wasn't looking for a book on self esteem. Tips such as: stop living to please others, practice compassion, learn to laugh at yourself (I did that one a long time ago) are good self improvement tips, but if I wanted that kind of advice, I would read (again) Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People--a classic that hasn't been surpassed IMO. I wanted dating tips.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-17 18:36:15 EST)
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| 12-30-07 | 5 | (NA) |
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As a thirty year old woman fresh out of a long-term relationship, I was having trouble motivating myself to get back out into the dating scene. I'm so glad that this book was recommended to me by a friend! It not only gave me some insight into what went wrong in my last (and prior) relationships, allowing me to learn from my mistakes and move on, but it further changed my jaded attitude towards dating to one of fantastic optimism! My new attitude has made me much more outgoing and open towards strangers and I have been less worried about impressing men and more focused on filling my time with things that are fun to me. I highly recommend this book to any woman looking to get more out of her current relationship or searching for the right man, as well as to anyone trying to make sense out of a disastrous failed relationship so she can learn from it and move on.
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| 10-22-07 | 4 | 2\2 |
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i'm going through a period of brushing up on my dating/relationship info so this is one of many books i've read through recently. i enjoyed the information and thought it was good. a lot of this isn't rocket science but good reinforcement.
my only little issue is that i wish the cover didn't show what looks like a white man & woman, i know it's a small thing but i pay attention to the covers of book and many diverse groups might find this beneficial but it sort of looks geared towards one group of people. (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-30 23:13:39 EST)
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| 09-14-07 | 4 | 1\1 |
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This book is another book that teaches you the basic psychology for dealing effectively with the opposite sex.
Steve Nakamot's 'gimmick' is to present negative and positive points about dating in terms of this 'sucks' or this 'rocks'. What he write about is fairly common in most relationship books, however he presents it in an easy to read and even fun manner. So even if you know most of this stuff, if you need a pick me up then go ahead and read this book. Some of the essential he brings up are, for example, "dating sucks if"...the romance is going nowhere, when you have emotional baggage holding you back or when you don't know the weaknesses in yourself that you need to work on. Conversely, "dating rocks if"...when you love yourself, when you make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex and when you become great at social interactions. I'm giving it 4 stars because this info is common not because this isn't a great book. If this is your first relationship psychology related book you will find it extremely insightful and easy to read. Enjoy! (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 07:05:22 EST)
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| 09-05-07 | 5 | 1\1 |
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I loved this book, almost as much as I loved "Men Are Like Fish" (same author). Not only is it informative about dating in a lighthearted and humorous way, it provides insight on how to grow into a confident and desirable woman from a male's perspective.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 07:05:22 EST)
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| 08-01-07 | 4 | 2\2 |
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I teach at the college level and I'm a firm believer in being a lifetime learner. Why not approach dating in the same way as academics? I'm back in the dating world and have no idea how to navigate this new frontier. This book gave me lots of information, advice, confirmed some things I already knew and gave me the information I needed to empower myself in this new adventure. I feel more confident and ready to go.... Plus I liked the additional bonus handouts that were made available at the end of the book. Very very helpful.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 07:05:22 EST)
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| 06-15-07 | 2 | 2\5 |
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Not worth the purchase. Does not capture the modern dating scene. I shared some of the "insights" with several male friends and they disagreed with the type of woman Nakamoto thinks will succeed with men.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 07:05:22 EST)
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| 05-04-07 | 5 | 3\4 |
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I just finished reading Dating Rocks! and found it very interesting and had very valuable information for someone like me, a woman of 50+ years, who is getting back in the dating game.
Thank you so much for having shared this information in your book. I would recommend it to women of all ages, the younger the better. 21 smart moves and you don't want to overlook any one of them. (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 07:05:22 EST)
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| 12-12-06 | 4 | 3\17 |
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I liked the book very much. as I am a very tough critic when it comes to books and i hate to be dragged along or in circles as many writers I find circle and reiterate their story so often that I loose intrest just a short way through. but I love true stories and reading about all the diferent types of dating sittuations out their. this book was my favorite in it's class, for this year, I liken it to "Around The World In 80 Days" and "The Dream Begins When I Awake" All grate dating compasses for people out and looking or just enjoy good whity stories.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-07-09 23:03:44 EST)
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| 10-21-06 | 5 | 16\17 |
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How delightful to have another title from the author of one of my most indispensable books, "Men Are Like Fish," which was so important to me that I ended up buying it twice (my second-hand copy was missing a few key pages, so I happily ordered one brand new).
As I am now reading "Dating Rocks" for the second time, I am reminded that the overall effect of reading Steve Nakamoto is a welcome boost of optimism. And if there is any realm in which a negative outlook is poorly rewarded, it's romance. As an unexpected bonus, I was motivated to become a better friend, sister and daughter as well as lover. These books are useful even to those not currently pursuing relationships for the sheer pleasure of being reminded that we can be happy or sad during our one shot at life, so why not chose the brighter way? (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-07-09 23:03:44 EST)
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| 10-20-06 | 5 | 11\12 |
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How delightful to have another title from the author of one of my most indispensable books, "Men Are Like Fish," which was so important to me that I ended up buying it twice (my second-hand copy was missing a few key pages, so I happily ordered one brand new).
As I am now reading "Dating Rocks" for the second time, I am reminded that the overall effect of reading Steve Nakamoto is a welcome boost of optimism. And if there is any realm in which a negative outlook is poorly rewarded, it's romance. As an unexpected bonus, I was motivated to become a better friend, sister and daughter as well as lover. These books are useful even to those not currently pursuing relationships for the sheer pleasure of being reminded that we can be happy or sad during our one shot at life, so why not chose the brighter way? (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-03-06 10:51:20 EST)
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| 10-03-06 | 5 | 18\18 |
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This is an empowering book for women with all the right intentions....but their socializing efforts just aren't leading them to meet Mr. Right.
Dating Rocks! tells it like it is from a man's perspective...with honesty and constructive advice. It's not that a man is dictating what to do, but rather, he is sharing what he sees...reflecting on the common faux pas women make but are often unaware of. Examples in the book are mostly women's stories of challenge, with four female contributors, so the book offers a unique and balanced perspective....not just reflecting the author's take on things. Nakomoto provides strategic guidance on how to live your best life so you can attract a soulmate who will stand the test of time. And, a big part of that is knowing how to present yourself by making the most of your assets, and living fully and more spiritually. He is right in suggesting that this will make you that much more irresistible and self confident. "What To Do Now" sections provide constructive steps the reader may take, and he even offers a free Bonus Special Report. Cool extra for gals looking for that much more!. The book's format is very accessible, and it's smartly written. I especially like the charts and light-hearted illustrations, making Dating Rocks! a worthwhile read that treats a serious subject for singles with a smile. With this book in hand, you can truly shake up your social life for the better! (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-07-09 23:03:44 EST)
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| 10-02-06 | 5 | 12\12 |
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This is an empowering book for women with all the right intentions....but their socializing efforts just aren't leading them to meet Mr. Right.
Dating Rocks! tells it like it is from a man's perspective...with honesty and constructive advice. It's not that a man is dictating what to do, but rather, he is sharing what he sees...reflecting on the common faux pas women make but are often unaware of. Examples in the book are mostly women's stories of challenge, with four female contributors, so the book offers a unique and balanced perspective....not just reflecting the author's take on things. Nakomoto provides strategic guidance on how to live your best life so you can attract a soulmate who will stand the test of time. And, a big part of that is knowing how to present yourself by making the most of your assets, and living fully and more spiritually. He is right in suggesting that this will make you that much more irresistible and self confident. "What To Do Now" sections provide constructive steps the reader may take, and he even offers a free Bonus Special Report. Cool extra for gals looking for that much more!. The book's format is very accessible, and it's smartly written. I especially like the charts and light-hearted illustrations, making Dating Rocks! a worthwhile read that treats a serious subject for singles with a smile. With this book in hand, you can truly shake up your social life for the better! (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-03-06 10:51:20 EST)
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| 09-05-06 | 5 | 18\19 |
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Right to the point. Covers all areas about relationship issues we have with men. And boy, do we got it all messed up. I had no idea men are this dislocated from what is really going on with us women...But if you follow some of the straight forward advice from Steve, you may get the relationship you want outta the guy.
Very informative without beating around the bush...so to speak. (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-07-09 23:03:44 EST)
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| 08-10-06 | 4 | 6\6 |
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Chock full of male insight but mostly great reminders to love yourself, take care of yourself physically and emotionally, present yourself in a healthy way, make the most of dating AND enjoy w/out attaching to situations that won't, in the long run, be what you're looking for. The book is a quick read, well sectioned, and several points jumped out as "talking points" for my book club. Married, single, involved, seeking... timely reminders for ALL women. And it would also be a good book for men to flip through -- it's not all about women being the best they can be, but rather people being their best to attract the best.
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| 07-10-06 | 5 | 5\5 |
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I've recently re-entered the dating world after some time off and have found this book to be helpful in getting back into the swing of things. Its 21 chapters cover most of the important aspects of dating life, from considering the relationship you have with yourself and on to evaluating the relationship that you build with another through its early stages. It's concise and offers common sense tips that one may forget in every day life. What I like best about the book is its comic relief (cartoons) and, more importantly, its hopeful attitude as I believe that this quality will take you far in any pursuit. Consider this quote from Thoreau: "I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." Buy this book and get on your way. For additional reading, I also recommend "the Boyfriend Test" by Wendy Walsh. Good luck!
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| 06-29-06 | 5 | 2\3 |
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Dating can be draining and difficult for many of us and Steve Nakamoto knows it. His book is enjoyable and funny but at the same time he acts like an "older brother" who is 100% behind you because he really wants you to reach your goals!... He knows how hard it is for you and he's there to help by sharing some "secrets" that you may not be aware of as a woman when you're trying so hard to find "the one". I like the sensitivity and the author's honest recognition of the challanges that we women face out there... But not like your girlfriends - he will not let you have a pitty party! Instead, he will encourage you to be the best women you can be while showing you that attitude is REALLY EVERYTHING!!!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2006-07-11 09:27:17 EST)
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| 06-28-06 | 4 | 2\3 |
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This is an entertaining eyeopener as to what you can do yourself to hopefully stop wasting your time on hopeless prospects. And, in the end, a way of saving those wasted tears. I especially enjoyed "The Bottom Line" in each chapter which in short repeats the "message". Also, the checklist of "When He's Not That Into You", will be memorised or tattooed into the palm of my hand and hopefully put to use soon. The "points" may seem obvious, but so much easier to recognize when listed in this manner. The same goes for all the other checklists.
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| 06-28-06 | 4 | (NA) |
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This can be an eyeopener and hopefully a way out of wasting time on hopeless prospects and a way of saving those wasted tears. I especially enjoyed "The Bottom Line" in each chapter which in short repeats the "message". Also, the checklist of "When He's Not That Into You", will be memorised and hopefully put to use. The "points" may seem obvious, but so much easier to recognize when listed in this manner.
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| 06-12-06 | 4 | 2\5 |
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I enjoyed this book and highly suggest it--it had some great insight. It was one of the few books that really told me what I was doing wrong, and in a very clever way. I also liked his used on Buddhist principles and sayings--it was highly effective. Additionally, it was a quick and entertaining read--I was able to finish it in less than 2 nights.
The only issue that I had with the book was the fact that he repeatedly discussed that men are only looking for thin women--this simply isn't true. As a smallish BBW (not a Jabba the Hut), I get more dates than my thin friends. Yes, men have preferences, but saying all (or most) men want a thin woman is a blanket statement. (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-07-11 09:27:17 EST)
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| 05-23-06 | 5 | 5\6 |
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I'm an author of a "dating book" myself so I was very interested to read Steve Nakamoto's "Dating Rocks." The book is arranged in a snappy, short-length chapter format, with plenty of humorous cartoon graphics throughout. I especially appreciated Nakamoto's sharing of the "male perspective" in each topic he covered. Perhaps the male perspective that sums up his work best is: "your decisions will either guide you towards or away from love!" I agree.
The text of the book is interspersed with questions and comments from iVilliage.com where Nakamoto serves as the dating/relationship expert advisor for the "Ask Mr. Answer Man" message board. As the subtitle suggests, Nakamoto relays "21 smartest moves" that women can make to find and achieve love. To further help the reader, Nakamoto provides lists to reinforce various "smart move" topics, such as positive things you can say to boost self-esteem. Each chapter ends with a bottom line that reinforces the chapter's main points and helps distinguish between dating that "rocks" and dating that "sucks." Like all great relationship books, "Dating Rocks" encourages the reader to look at themselves first - love themselves first - before trying to have someone else "complete them." "Dating Rocks" would be a great addition to any single woman's library. From the author of "At the Coffee Shop" and "The Difference Now." (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-07-11 09:27:17 EST)
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| 05-19-06 | 5 | 3\5 |
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Steve Nakamoto's latest book, Dating Rocks!, is as much a handbook for life as it is a handbook for love. Everyone could benefit from his guidance, which is lightly peppered with appropriate quotes from literary figures. As someone who spent way too much time trying to polish "rough diamonds", I particularly liked Smart Moves #1 and #2 (basically, recognizing the good guys and weeding out the others in a timely fashion). By the way, when you're working your way through the weeds, practice Smart Moves #11 - Becoming an Outstanding Listener. You'll be honing your skills for those good guys, and you might learn something interesting for Smart Moves #10. You know what that one has to be.
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| 05-06-06 | 4 | 1\2 |
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A 'Don't Sweat the Small Stuff' take on love, this book preaches against micro management of the heart and for a no-nonsense appraisal of your love candidates in 'He's Just Not That Into You' style. It's a 'real' take on the dating scene with advice on how to maximise your odds for romantic success.
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| 04-25-06 | 5 | 7\8 |
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I wasn't sure what to expect when I picked up this book. I'm skeptical of relationship books in general. The subtitle, "The 21 Smartest Moves Women Make For Love" kind of scared me into thinking that this book might be an updated version of "The Rules" in disguise. Thankfully, it isn't. I was also relieved to discover this is NOT a book about how to meet men. Instead, Dating Rocks combines psychology, self-help, and practical advice, all in one entertaining and enlightening book. Dating Rocks is not simply a book about dating. The book gives realistic suggestions for making better decisions, improving self-esteem, and staying true to your heart. I wish I had read this book years ago.
Each chapter of Dating Rocks features stories, quotes, advice, and more. The author, Steve Nakamoto, encourages women to take responsibility for their past mistakes and take the future into their own hands. Dating Rocks teaches women to be more productive and proactive in the choices they make. Making smarter decisions will yield positive results. I think this book should be required reading material for every person, male or female, whether single or married. Dating Rocks was written by a man, which is a nice change of pace. So many women get their advice and opinions about relationships ONLY from other women, which means they lack the insight that could be gained from an honest and unbiased male perspective. (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-06-29 23:31:56 EST)
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| 04-19-06 | 5 | 10\11 |
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As I was reading Dating Rocks, I realized how blindly we go into dating. I was thinking back to my dating days and wondering why some of these things didn't even occur to me and my friends. Not only that, but there is so much more we could never have known on our own. There would have been less wasted time and heart ache all around.
Dating Rocks offers new foresight on all the bad dates that can be avoided and what will attract more rewarding dates. Steve Nakamoto brings to light things we don't normally think about while dating such as; how the things we do come across to men and how we can determine, in a very short time, whether a man is worthy of a future date. He gives us a step-by-step strategic approach to dating that is easy to follow. I also enjoyed the lighter side of the book. The cartoons are a fun way of bring life to the subjects. And a huge bonus to Dating Rocks is that it's full of insider tips about men. This book will give even the most nervous woman the confidence she needs to make smart decisions about her love life. (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-06-29 23:31:56 EST)
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| 04-19-06 | 5 | 4\4 |
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As I was reading Dating Rocks, I realized how blindly we go into dating. I was thinking back to my dating days and wondering why some of these things didn't even occur to me and my friends. Not only that, but there is so much more we could never have known on our own. There would have been less wasted time and heart ache all around.
Dating Rocks offers new foresight on all the bad dates that can be avoided and what will attract more rewarding dates. Steve Nakamoto brings to light things we don't normally think about while dating such as; how the things we do come across to men and how we can determine, in a very short time, whether a man is worthy of a future date. He gives us a step-by-step strategic approach to dating that is easy to follow. I also enjoyed the lighter side of the book. The cartoons are a fun way of bring life to the subjects. And a huge bonus to Dating Rocks is that it's full of insider tips about men. This book will give even the most nervous woman the confidence she needs to make smart decisions about her love life. L.A. Hunter - Romance Expert and Author of Romeo's Playbook (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-05-01 14:39:31 EST)
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| 04-11-06 | 5 | 3\4 |
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The author is the resident dating guru on iVillage.com, and after answering thousands of questions from women over the past ocuple of years, he's boiled down his advice and put the basics in this book. And it shows: this book has page after page of straight-ahead advice, and almost no fluff or anecdotes about random women or couples like you find in most relationship or dating guides. In chapter after chapter, the book describes a general issue or problem--meeting men, ending a dead-end relationship, how to make small talk, etc.--and lays out the basics of what you need to know about the issue, then gives you simple and effective exercises for "what to do now" to make progress on that issue. Definitely recommended.
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| 04-06-06 | 5 | 2\2 |
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I am not the type of woman that believes that "dating books" are condescending towards all womankind. I don't think that any author that spends their energy and time writing about dating (especially a good book like this one) believes that. That is why this book is a great read for those still in the dating game - it can really change your perspective and give you much needed direction towards achieving your goals.
Is your goal to catch a man? Probably not. But if your goal is to go on positive and enjoyable dates, with the hopes of finding a sustainable and rewarding relationship, then Dating Rocks is for you. Mr. Nakamoto gives you a pretty structured look at the things that would be most beneficial to women when it comes to meeting and dating men. And structure and direction is what you need if you are serious about your love life. Treat your love life like any other part of your life - with intensity, a desire to succeed, and professionalism, and you are bound to find the right person for you. It's not a "Bible" of the right way to do things or a silly "rules" book, but if you are all over the place right now, unfocused, and unsure with what you are doing - get this book to help you put together your own personal blueprint of how to create a much more rewarding dating life. Much success! Lisa, "GirlShrink" (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-06-29 23:31:56 EST)
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The book gave good suggestions on how to handle certain situations when dating and why.
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| 03-13-06 | 5 | 1\2 |
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I have met this author in person, and have read this book of his as well as his other title MEN ARE LIKE FISH. They are both excellent books which are fun to read and filled with genuine insights into the masculine mind, body, and heart. Five Stars.
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| 03-09-06 | 4 | 4\7 |
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This book takes a different fun approach to dating. An easy read sprinkled with lots of helpful tips. I found the "What to do Now" part of special value.
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This book takes a different fun approach to dating. An easy read sprinkled with lots of helpful tips.
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| 02-28-06 | 4 | 2\3 |
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This book was easy to follow with great pointers that made sense. The use of lists to review made it great to explore not only areas that I could work on to be a better date, but also how the guy you might be dating rates. I started using his check lists as a guage if this person was worth seeing again. Easy to read, informative, straight forward and worth the read.
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| 02-12-06 | 5 | 7\7 |
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I agree with the other reviewers that this book rocks. The author, who has written a lot on the subject of dating, has written his best book yet--this one! It's almost like having a dating coach at your disposal--just put it in your bag and refer to it whenever you are in doubt. Seriously!
So, if you need some smart moves, make one and buy this book. It's worth the cover charge, believe me! Also recommended: "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Man Magnet". (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-05-09 15:05:02 EST)
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| 02-01-06 | 5 | 5\6 |
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This book has exactly the kind of information I was looking for. It challenged me to look at my dating behaviors and gave real life suggestions for change. The chapters on "Blind Spots" and "Small Talk" were especially enlightening. The honest male perspective was the most valuable information in Dating Rocks!. I am hoping to have great dating experiences from here on.
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| 01-13-06 | 5 | 5\5 |
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This book touched on several important facets of a relationship and what pitfalls to look for in every developing stage. It focuses on the positive person YOU need to be in order to find the person you deserve. Makes alot of sense! It talks about having confidence and enough self esteem to carry on a healthy relationship and how so many of us look in the wrong areas to find men (or women) to spend a lifetime with. I did not want to put this book down and found some things in it to be quite humorous at times! Weening out the bad apples is hard and painful but necessary in the quest for finding your soulmate.
It seemed that alot of what I read was talking about ME and my own previous BAD choices and how I kept meeting the wrong kind of men (until now) and alot of the negative feelings I had about myself reflected that in the men I met along the way. I would recommend this book to anyone who seriously wants to know the secrets to finding and keeping that special someone by first loving yourself before you can find someone to love. -Informative, Insightful, Very helpful. -C. Valor, Florida (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-05-01 14:39:31 EST)
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| 01-12-06 | 5 | 8\8 |
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Reviewed by Kelley Anderson for Reader Views (1/06)
"Dating Rocks" is a sensible, insightful view into the mind of a man and what he wants out of a relationship. It is appropriate for any female wanting a mature, adult relationship with a man and gives her specific and detailed guidance on how to achieve it. Nakamoto writes in easy to understand language, using the same format for each chapter that makes the information easily accessible. The chapters are broken down into simple steps, making the information manageable. He provides the reader with challenges for each step and thoughtful advice about looks, charm, honesty, loyalty and love. "Dating Rocks" covers all areas of dating, beginning with presenting yourself to men as an attractive, available woman who is well put together, mature and highly desirable. Nakamoto shows ways to make yourself a better person in order to be a contributing part of a two sided relationship. He moves into what a healthy happy relationship should and should not be, tackling the chemistry a couple feels in a sensitive way. Then he shows the importance of maintaining that relationship so you can continue in a partnership that will bring you happiness for a lifetime. I could have used this book when I was dating my husband. It would have made my dating experience go a lot smoother. I would recommend this book to any single woman that is frustrated with the dating experience or one that needs some ideas on how to keep her current romance alive. A must read for those inexperienced at dating, whether being young or newly single. Nakamoto's self-improvement tips are right on the mark, even for married women. (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-04-23 18:56:36 EST)
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| 01-11-06 | 5 | 3\3 |
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This is a great book! Some great info on getting yourself ready for the dating experience fast. I got it and read it in the same evening! Loved the section about things to look out for in men such as looking at the folks he hangs out with. This speaks volumes and we know them but just don't do it! Thanks for the reminders. You've really got to be confident in yourself and this book is like visiting a weekend "positive conference" but quicker. Steve has great discernment in the male area. Can't wait to read "Men are like fish" and cast these ideas into the "big Waters!" Thanks!!!
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| 01-06-06 | 5 | 5\5 |
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The book offers great insight to women trying to understand and succeed in the dating game. With a touch of humor and strong doses of common sense, the book's easy to read style leads the reader through practical "do's" and "don'ts" when trying to find a meaningful relationship. I loved the definitions and his "honest male perspectives" offered at the beginning of each chapter. A thoroughly enjoyable read.
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| 12-22-05 | 4 | 4\4 |
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I totally enjoyed this book. Steve"s style of writing is easy to read and comprehend.A couple of the chapters really hit home and gave me ways to correct my past behavior. I would recommend this book to any woman that is having some dating issues.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2006-04-05 13:01:21 EST)
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| 12-18-05 | 4 | 11\12 |
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I often tell women, "If there is something you want to know about men, ask a man." I purchased Steve Nakamoto's first book, "Men Are Like Fish" and it was one of the best purchases I have ever made. Now, with his latest book, "Dating Rocks", he has a new masterpiece! This book forces women to look at themselves first and to face the truth about their relationship habits/choices. The fact that it is written by a man enriches the book even more. I was stunned to my core when I read about a certain type of relationship Steve warns women to abstain from and it is the type of relationship I repeatedly found myself in. I was finally able to free myself from this type of relationship only a year ago. I've wasted a lot of time in the wrong types of relationships but I am now breathing a breath of fresh air and looking forward to being in love one day real soon. Thanks Steve - God bless!
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