unChristian: What a New Generation Really Thinks about Christianity... and Why It Matters

  Author:    David Kinnaman, Gabe Lyons
  ISBN:    0801013003
  Sales Rank:    758
  Published:    2007-10-01
  Publisher:    Baker Books
  # Pages:    256
  Binding:    Hardcover
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Based on groundbreaking Barna Group research, unChristian uncovers the negative perceptions young people have of Christianity and explores what can be done to reverse them.
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11-12-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  unchristian
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Anyone who is interested in understanding how Christianity is viewed today will find the book "unchristian" a must read. As the authors state "agree or not we must come to terms with their impressions." The impressions are complex and difficult to navigate, but this book will give any person who cares or dares an opportunity to understand. How has the message of God's grace become hidden to so many today? Start searching for the answers by reading "unchristian."
Rev. Gregory Douglass, a United Methodist pastor
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11-08-08 2 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Just Organizes Well What Most People Know
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There really isn't any new content in this book for any Christian who has read Barna in the last few years. The value present is in the way the authors organize it. Kinnaman and Lyons describe in detail how most Christians today are perceived by society as hypocritical, hyper-evangelistic, anti-homosexual, sheltered, overly political and judgmental. They then offer a few concluding thoughts as to how to change the perception for the better.

For someone who has never read any recent works by George Barna, this title may be worth the price. Otherwise, I'd recommend skipping it or borrowing it from a friend.
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11-01-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  For the book, "Unchristian"
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This is a powerful book meant to educate those of us looking to help Christians evangelize in a more positive and meaningful way.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-09 11:18:58 EST)
10-30-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Thought-provoking
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Unchristian is a thought-provoking, valuable,intelligent, must-read for those Christians who have been in the church for a long time, in particular. I highly recommend it.
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10-28-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  UnChristian by David Kinnamon
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UnChristian is a wake-up call to the typical church member who is wondering why their's church's congregation is dwindling and getting older. He uses factual observations to explain what church members are doing wrong and how we can reestablish a connection with the up and coming generations who will soon run society.
It is engaging and a quick read. He provides insight into the cultural phenomena of today's world.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-31 00:20:40 EST)
10-24-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Grains of Truth AND Stumbling Blocks
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The research and ideas presented here are worth the time to consider by any Christian or church body. If we do not wake up to how others view Christians and the church and examine ourselves in the process, we will miss opportunities to share our greatest treasure with others and honor God. Rather than wrap ourselves in self-righteous smugness, we need to see ourselves as others see us, and then examine those views in light of the gospel, not take license to examine and judge others. If others' perceptions have only a grain of truth, and that gets in the way, then we need to let Christ's light and love change us so we can more honestly reflect him in the world. Don't let the grain of truth become a stumbling block to others.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-28 11:25:07 EST)
10-24-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Unchristian: What a New Generation Really Thinks....
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This book is much needed for the Christian community if they want to be at all effective in reaching people and loving people of any generation. Often, overtly unloving behaviors have been unrecognized as such by deeming them as warnings or as right. This book gives a perspective of how outsiders view Christianity...and it is not pretty...but so very essential that Christians take a look at their own behaviors and attitudes, or they will miss the mark.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-28 11:25:07 EST)
10-23-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Good Book
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I would recommend this book for anyone this is concerned about Christianity. The authors did a great job of pointing out the issues that The Church is facing in America. I know that I will take these issue to heart while working with the youth in my Church. Some of the issue that were addressed were hard to shallow, and I am guilty of the issues/concerns. "UnChristian" has show me that I must change my ways while dealing with indivdual that are not Christian. To be more Christlike, not humanlike.
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10-09-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Irritating and Elevating
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I think the Barna group has revealed in Unchristian facts about the younger generation (18-29) which will be eye-opening and maybe a little uncomfortable for many in the church who will read this book. The book on one level is very irritating because it brings so many accusations against Christians that it can become quite depressing. Who wants to be part of something that is hypocritical, manipulative, homophobic, insular, political, and judgmental? Taken as a whole, no one would want to come within miles of a church after reading that list. The list is about perception, not reality. There are probably millions of Christians in America who are humbly going about their daily lives seeking to bless others. Many Christians are just trying to raise children and make it, like everybody else. But we have been painted in a most negative light in most cases by the entertainment/media of our culture. I am no conspiracy theorist, but I do believe there is a bias against Christianity among many in the media. Why? I believe it may be explained in part by the unchristian way they were treated in their early experiences with church. Now I know that is a broad brush but the most vocal opponenets of Christianity in the entertainment/media world often come from a strict religious background. So perceptions are a big part of the problem the younger generations are having with Christianity. And these perceptions are largely driven by a media that is hostile to Christianity. So what is the solution? I believe the book hints at it in the call to real acts of love for non-Christians and humble and courageous service to a needy world. For Christians, it can never be an either-or approach of care for physical needs or sharing the gospel, it must be a both-and approach where our actions give credibility to our words.
The central problem the church can address, in my view, relating to the issues presented in unchristian, is to stop making the local church the be all and end all of activity and to start focusing on the kingdom of God, of which the local church is just a part. Pastors and church members get too caught up in the activities of the church (and this takes many forms) and neglect the daily living of life in Christ in a community among unchurched people. Megachurch flashy contemporary expressions of church are in danger of becoming ingrown and stifled as must as traditional smaller churches. When it becomes about us instead of about God and his love for the world, we have lost the battle and the media stereotypes become all too easy to pin on us because they carry a hint of the truth. If this book moves us out of the four walls of the church and away from endless meetings and church organizing to real ministry to the world, what will be an irritating book to read could become an elevating book for the church.
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09-30-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Ever Christian should read this book, especially pastors!
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Great book, every Christian should read this book. This book is especially beneficial for pastors and will help them in the way they lead and guide their congregation.
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09-16-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A vicar's review.
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This is a book based on three years of extensive research by the Barna Group concerning the perceptions of Christianity from the viewpoint of 'outsiders,' or those who are not Christians. The research results are embarrassing and ought to be of great concern to ministers and laity alike.

When asked to describe Christianity the following descriptions were given at least 75% of the time: Anti-Homosexual, Judgmental, Hypocritical, Old-Fashioned, Too political.

The reader quickly gathers that there are adjectives that are missing. One would hope that descriptions such as: Loving, Kind, Generous, Merciful, Helpful and Fulfilling would be on the list. Unfortunately, they are not.

Consequently, Christianity has an image problem. Though we are Christians, too often we are actually promoting an 'unchristian' faith.

The statistics gathered by the Barna Group set the foundation for the rest of the book. Author David Kinnaman and co-author Gabe Lyons clearly and effectively interpret the mounds of statistics that they have gathered. After presenting the data in a meaningful way, Kinnaman and Lyons offer practical and thoughtful suggestions on how to go about changing the pejorative adjectives that are unfortunately attached to Christianity today.

UnChristian is a quick read at 256 pages and will transform the way you look at ministry.
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09-16-08 3 0\2
(Hide Review...)  will read soon... I hope
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I haven't had a chance to read this book, but it comes with a good recommendation.
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09-06-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A look at the Christian Church
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This is a book that should be read by every Christian; especially those whose main contacts are within their churches. Written by the head of the Barna Group and based on the group's surveys about the church, this book reveals what those outside of the church think of Christians. It's not a flattering picture. The book goes on to explore the various areas and reflects on what Christians might be doing wrong or other ways to communicate the truths of the Bible that might be more easily understood by those they are trying to reach. It is a book which will cause you to think and pray and has the potential to change your life.
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09-02-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Frank, honest, and sobering
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This book shares a scienitific based review of how the unchurched view mainstream Christianity. Though frank and sobering, the results will not be surprising to most Christians. Rather than reflect God's love, Christians all too often reflect judgementalism. I took the book to heart and will try to be mindful of the way that I image God and the church to the world. It is a "must read" for every Christian who deals with everyday people, especially for Christians who live in larger metropolitan cities or college towns.
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09-01-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Great book
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Great book about how those who are not Christians think about those who say they are,
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08-19-08 5 3\3
(Hide Review...)  Great Book But Not the Whole Story
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This is a great book, but it's not complete.

The book does a wonderful job of showing why Christians look unattractive in the eyes of those who are not part of the faith. To complete the picture, I would recommend George Barna's excellent books "Revolution" and "Pagan Christianity"?

These two books explain why most churches are unattractive to both Christians and non Christians alike, and ("Pagan Christianity" especially) gives a great deal of historical evidence for why this is the case.

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08-18-08 1 2\9
(Hide Review...)  Didn't Read It
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I agree that the church has to change but can someone please tell me why we (the church) should go to the "world" and ask the "world" what the church of Jesus Christ should look like?
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08-18-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A must read for all
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This is one of the most impacting books of our day. Every Christian should look at this closely. Jesus and Paul understood well the culture they lived in. We will do our selves a huge favor to understand the culture that we live in today.
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08-13-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Yes, Yes, YES!! This Author Finally "Got The Memo"!
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I borrowed this book from my local library on a whim. The title intrigued me, and the premise was revolutionary. I was initially afraid that this book would be more of the same prattling, self-congratulatory, self-righteous propagandizing of the Christian faith that makes me sick to my stomach to even think about.

I was dead wrong.

At last, here is a book by two very self-aware Christians, David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons, who finally "Got The Memo" about how Outsiders (their term for people who don't self-identify as Christians) feel about Christianity in general and Christians specifically.

Their 12-year research seems to be thorough and a pretty good representative of what I and my friends and acquaintances have experienced at the hands of so-called Christians. If the New Testament saying is "By their fruits, ye shall know them," then what most Outsiders have experienced of Christians and Christianity has been horrible, bitter fruit indeed.

The book goes into detail about the main complaints about Christians/Christianity, and discusses how these types of behavior utterly destroys the intended Good News message about Jesus Christ. I'm sure that even the most liberal and self-aware of the people I've encountered as Christians or Evangelical Christians don't want to be seen as "Homophobic (the #1 complaint), hypocritical, uncaring (my word & experience), sheltered, arrogant, too political, judgmental, and only concerned about a person 'getting saved'." The book also gives example anecdotes from the research participants, detailing the treatment they received from other Christians--including abusive treatment, shunning, blaming, and deception--among other attrocities.

Throughout this book, Kinnaman and Lyons also gives their own anecdotes concerning these issues, and in so doing issues a bold call to other Christians: if you truly want to be a fit and shining witness to your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, than you should really pay attention to how to you come across--in word and deed--to Outsiders. Not to pretend to be something that you're not just to get the Outsider's trust (that would fall under the "deception" complaint, after all), but to be a better living witness to Christ's love for them and everyone.

Though I'm no longer afraid of reading the Bible anymore, I will never again self-identify as a Christian in this lifetime (due to child abuse issues and other horrible treatment at the hands of "Christians"). (Thus, I'm Pagan.) However, I find this book invaluable and instructive--and even a little healing. There are at least two Christians out there who "get the memo" about how we Outsiders feel about our treatment at the hands of other Christians. Bravo on such a wonderful, eye-opening book.

Note: for some reason, the authors placed LDS/Mormons in the non-Christian category, which I find odd and a little insulting. LDS members follow and revere Jesus Christ in their church, so why put them in the "Outsider" category? (I'll still give the book 5 stars, though, for the groundbreaking content of the book alone.)
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08-04-08 4 1\1
(Hide Review...)  UnChristian- what non-Christians think about you.
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If you work with youth or young people or even young at heart you need to read this. It's most important revelation is that this is what they think of Christianity, Christian and ultimately me. I want to love people to Jesus not bash them in the head to church. By understanding their views I can better do more of the former and less of the later.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-14 00:56:52 EST)
08-02-08 3 0\1
(Hide Review...)  We're still doing it...
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Yet another book trying to keep the focus on man instead of God. We have a book at the house from the 1940s (yes, the 1940s) calling the Church to see the danger of our man-centered Gospel.

It isn't about us or what the public thinks of us, it's about God. If we're a surrendered people and our desire is to point all people to Him, as Jesus said, "If I be lifted up I will draw all men unto me", then we should expect the masses to reject us. Jesus said the majority would reject Christianity; He said the way was wide that leads to destruction, and narrow that leads to life.

Jesus never chased after anyone. He told it like it was. He's a God of Love, but also a God of Truth, and we will all face Him someday.

The very first word He preached was, "Repent". This will never be popular with people who want God on their terms.

Should the Church change it's message? Only if it is preaching anything other than "Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand...". Should the Church change it's focus? Yes, back on God where it belongs. Should the Church change it's approach? Yes; we need to get out of the brick and mortar building and live it out on the streets.

Jesus taught the truth in love because He cared where the "sheep without a shepherd" were headed. To the woman at the well, He, without any reservations or hesitation, told her that she was living with someone who wasn't her husband, which she knew was wrong. He didn't condemn her, but reminded her that she was headed in the wrong direction and started sharing God's truth with her. That's the Gospel, folks.

It isn't an "us against them" mentality. It is a "I do what I see My Father doing" mentality that we need to foster in God's people, and send them out on the streets where the people are. We need to be lighthouses pointing people to God, not to religion.

The real book that needs to be written is: Are we willing to count the cost? Are Christians willing to give up their lives like our Example did to reach the world for God? Expect rejection and persecution. It comes with the territory. Jesus was the most humble, loving, person alive, but he also drove the money-changers out of the temple with a whip, because He loved His father first. (There's a reason why the first 4 commandments are the first 4, did you realize that?) It cost Him his life, of course. Are we willing to count that cost, ourselves?

(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-05 03:44:19 EST)
07-29-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Sobering
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As an old Mosaic (almost 22) and a born-again Christian according to the criteria of the researchers, I found this book to be deeply sobering. It expressed some of the tension I have felt since high school, and helped explain why so many in my generation are resistant to the form Christianity has taken in the last two or three decades.

I was encouraged by the fact that most "outsiders" are not resistant to the message of Christianity, especially the message of Jesus (at least on social issues), but rather they are resistant to the way self-professing Christians act, especially when those actions don't line up with what Jesus taught. This gives me hope because if we lead by example and live according to the teachings and spirit of Jesus, this generation will flock to Him because this generation is longing for a transforming power to take on the massive challenges of our world today.

I also take heart in the fact that these perceptions can change, given a wide repentance of attitudes and actions on the part of Christians, especially those in leadership. The issue of homosexuality is a perfect case study: the over-40 cohort of leadership in the American church has not adequately given those under 30 a dynamic, life-affirming viewpoint and approach to understanding and wrestling with the issue of homosexuality. It's either "Hate the sin, love the sinner" (which comes across as insincere and even mean to outsiders), condone the sin, or condemn the sin, none of which fit with our way of doing things and viewing reality. We (the under-30 generation) are more loyal to our "tribe" - our network of friends and friends-of-friends (think Facebook) - than to institutions. So if our best friend comes out as gay, and our church says to "Love the sinner, hate the sin", we have a very hard time coming to terms with that. We feel intense loyalty to our friend but a lingering loyalty to the institution of our childhood. More often than not, the institution (the church, marriage, traditional sexual mores, etc.) is cast off.

The author stated that - while every generations becomes more liberal in its youth and gradually becomes more conservative - the current generation of late teens and twentysomethings is somehow different than past generations were at their age, given the massive amounts of technology, marketing, violence, and other media that we have literally grown up around and within. That to be 23 years old in 2008 is very different than what it was like to be 23 in 1988 or 1978. Only time will tell if this assertion is true or not, but I have a feeling it may be true.

Overall, this is a very good book for a) parents of Mosaics and Busters, especially Christians, who need to understand the makeup of their childrens' culture and values, and b) Christian Mosaics and Busters, especially those firmly in the Christian "bubble", who need a kick-in-the-pants and an understanding that the way we are doing things (as far as "evangelism" and even how we express our faith in general) simply is not working for our generation.

I agree with the main thrust of the book: That young outsiders have certain perceptions about Christians that do not line up with the teachings of Jesus (judgmental, anti-homosexual, pushy with conversion, hypocritical, etc. instead of caring, loving, forgiving, humble, etc.), and that these perceptions both inhibit Christians' ability to effectively reach that generation, and repulse young outsiders from even considering the faith. And also, that the fault is not entirely with outsiders (as outsiders they don't understand first-hand the richness and depth of love that can only be found in God through Jesus), but blame also rests on Christians - both Boomers and Gen X and Y - for not incarnating the teachings and spirit of Jesus in our lives, "losing our soul" in our quest to maintain our fast-crumbling cultural and political hegemony in American society.

We can reverse these perceptions: let's get to work!

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07-28-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A book every Christian should read..
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I think I've been waiting for this book for a long time. I think about all the "Christians" I've met who have been so bitter, so self-righteous, so mean-spirited, so quick to damn, that if you're not careful, your view of the church and Jesus himself can get very jaded. I found I wasn't alone.

David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons' book unChristian explores the disgust many people (with particular emphasis on the younger generation) have with Christians, and how this image has evolved. UnChristian shows that most 18-29-year-olds view Christian faith as hypocritical, insensitive, out of touch with reality, boring, confusing, irrelevant, bigoted, too political, old-fashioned, and the list grows. Maybe you've heard these labels yourself. Maybe you've heard these labels about your own church. And at some point, one or more of these labels applies to each one of us personally.

Of course the problem is the image of Christianity, rather than real, living faith in Jesus Christ. They like Jesus, but not the church. It's not God, it's these Christians they can't stand! But the responsibility in how that image has come about lies on the shoulders of many Christians, of all traditions and backgrounds. Too many things over the years have often taken priority over strong, sincere discipleship. They've taken priority over our first love. Kinnaman points out that in matters of the heart, in lifestyle -- from abusing someone, to viewing pornography, to saying mean things behind someone's back -- younger Christians (ages 18-29) are virtually no different from their non-Christian counterparts.

I can imagine many Christians getting angry about this book. But don't toss it aside, even if you're prepared not to agree. Listen to what Kinnaman and Lyons are saying, seriously, thoughtfully, prayerfully.

It's not too late. Whatever the reason for this image of Christianity, the image can change. It's time to stop ignoring the culture's frustration with us and our churches. There are many ways we can get real, strip ourselves of whatever drives our culture away, and reach out.

This is our wake-up call.

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07-25-08 2 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Read it and I Still Hate the Christians
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I was force fed Chistianity for the first 16 years of my life. I'm still trying to shake off the horrors to this day. I read this book thinking I would at last find a way to forgive the church for the way it treated me and the damage it did to me all those years ago. I found myself becoming only angrier. I read this book and I still hate the Christians..perhaps even more. I'm sure that many agnostics and atheists aka thinking people may have come to their non-belief due to the way they were treated in the church as a child. The nonsense, the fears, the silly doctrine, the lies. I am one of those people. Christopher Hitchens makes more and more sense each day. Lewis Black said it best during his "Red, White and Screwed" routine. "God is a prick!"
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07-21-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A Sobering Look
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In their book, "unChristian", authors Dan Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons, use research data gathered as part of the femri project's commissioning of a study by the Barna Research group to examine the attitudes of persons aged 15-49 towards Christianity in the United States. As the title implies and the authors report, the data does not paint a positive picture.

The strength of this book is that the conclusions drawn by the authors about the six broadly negative attitudes held by members of the last two generations are based on solid statistical research (that can be accessed by the reader through a web site). While some of the definitions and questions betray a specific paradigm from which the research is conducted, the results are founded on good data. Additionally, the conclusions drawn from this data, while again stated from within a specific paradigm, can be taken as following fairly straightforwardly from this data.

With these data in mind, Kinnaman discusses the broad scope of each of the attitudes, their effect on the interaction of generational members with much of American Chritianity and some solutions focused towards changing the attitudes from broadly negative to more positive. Refreshing, Kinnaman does not make excuses for or try to explain the appropriateness of the behaviors from those who call themselves Christians that has contributed to the negative perceptions discussed but challenges those actions and calls for individuals and churches to examine their biases and modify them according to broad scriptural principle.

The one caveat I would have regarding this book is that it is written by people associated with evangelical Christianity for readers familiar with and involved in that particular brand of of the Christian faith. Those coming from the emergent church conversation or from churches that have already begun to face up to some of the challenges the authors mention may find that some of the conclusions they have reached have already been identified within their own traditions. What is good about this book in that context is that while many of those arguments have heretofore been based in anecdotal information, the fermi project has gathered the statistical data to support the conclusions reached. However, much of Kinnaman's discussion still comes from that evangelical perspective of getting people saved (especially ironic given one of the chapter topics) rather than working with God to redeem all of creation back to Him. Finally, I would have liked to have seen more information on how Christians ought to practice their faith outside of the six somewhat narrowly defined topics. While issues like social justice, climate change, poverty and the like are mentioned, they are rarely discussed in more than a passing mention and, as such, the reader may be left that those outside the church only have complaints when, in fact, they are looking for the church to take the lead in issues that are deeply meaningful to them. Perhaps the authors will write another book addressing issues evangelical churches can address that will resonate with new generations of seekers.

In closing, this a book I think every leader within Christianity should read. This especially true for those in "middle management" (as it were) who lead small group studies and ministries. If the attitudes and perceptions the authors mention are to be changed, this is where such change will begin.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-30 00:59:14 EST)
07-14-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Hope that Christians can change the way outsiders perceive Christianity by the way they live their faith
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Christianity in the U.S. has an image problem, and it stands to lose an entire generation of young people if things don't change dramatically and soon. That's the conclusion of a three-year study by the Barna Group examining attitudes toward Christianity expressed by Mosaics and Busters, those in the late-teen-to-30 age group. Barna's findings should give evangelical Christians pause, but only briefly. Given the seriousness of the situation, believers can't pause for too long, because it seems they have a lot of work to do.

Here's one finding that shows just how negative an image we project to the world around us: "The primary reason outsiders feel hostile toward Christians, and especially conservative Christians, is not because of any specific theological perspective. What they react negatively to is our 'swagger,' how we go about things and the sense of self-importance we project. Outsiders say that Christians possess bark --- and bite.

Christians may not normally operate in attack mode, but it happens frequently enough that others have learned to watch their step around us. Outsiders feel they can't let Christians walk over them." That's pretty devastating stuff, though it really should come as no surprise to any Christian who has been listening carefully to outsiders under 30, and even some insiders over 30, in recent years.

The short version of the research findings is this: Mosaics and Busters most often expressed disenchantment (or outright hostility) toward Christians because they perceive them as hypocritical, only interested in people as potential converts, uncharitably anti-homosexual, sheltered from cultural and societal realities, too political, and judgmental. Before you get defensive, David Kinnaman is quick to remind Christians that this is how they are perceived. Your perception may differ, but that doesn't change the fact that outsiders often reject Christianity because of the image it projects.

The long version is what makes this book a must-read for...well, for all of us. It always sounds hyperbolic to say that "everyone" should read a particular book, but trying to narrow down the audience for this one is difficult. Let's just say that any thinking evangelical Christian with an open mind --- even half open --- would do well to read UNCHRISTIAN. It's vitally important for anyone in leadership to do so, but even those who are not leaders need to share some of the responsibility for giving Christianity a bad image.

One case in point is Christians' attitudes toward homosexuality --- and homosexuals. The "hate the sin, love the sinner" attitude so often expressed by Christians just doesn't wash with Mosaics and Busters. They see little love and compassion toward gays. From what they've observed, Christians hate both the sin and the sinner. Again, this is the short version and hardly does justice to the detailed, compelling and convincing research results.

And lest you think this is a dry read, full of statistics that will make your eyes glaze over, let me assure you that this is not the case. Yes, there are lots of numbers to wade through, but the authors did a masterful job of surrounding those numbers with eye-opening anecdotes and highly accessible analysis. And they included sidebars featuring commentary from other authors who have their ear to the ground on all this, including Rick Warren, Andy Crouch, Brian McLaren and FaithfulReader.com reviewer Margaret Feinberg. Their insights help enliven the chapters and put a human face on the stats.

Despite the depressing statistics, David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons offer hope that we can change the way outsiders perceive us by changing the way we live out our faith. Chapters end with a "Changing the Perceptions" section that offers practical steps we can take to turn the situation around. The book also includes an appendix on the methodology of the research and a short but helpful glossary of terms.

There is little question that the authors are correct in saying that Christianity has an image problem. But the problem is far more serious than mere image. The reality is this: evangelical Christianity has an attitude problem. And until that is corrected, until we begin to live out our faith more authentically, until we lose our swagger, the image --- the negative image --- will remain in the minds of outsiders.

--- Reviewed by Marcia Ford
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-22 03:46:57 EST)
07-14-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Un Christian
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Speaks directly to the person who feels a need to reach people on the outside. The writer uses research data obtained from people on the outside to determine how we "church" folks are preceived. I really did not learn anything new, but this book creates within me thedesire to change who I am in Christ in order to be Christ for those on the outside. The research data is clear and useful in pointing out the preception problem. The problem is me. In the way I live as a Christian. No Christian could read this book and honestly disagree with the results of the data. The church is made up of people like me, well accepted, leaders, business men and women, middle class, conservative who live our lives as we choose but profess a spiritual belief that is not used. Those on the outside have good eyes, Excellant book that will cause you to take inventory of your life.
Thomas L Moore
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-22 03:46:57 EST)
07-01-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  unChristian: examining the world's objections
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If Christians want fulfill the Great Commission and spread the Gospel throughout the "educated" world, then they must first understand what they're up against. This book explains why non-Christians are turned off to organized religion, and allows lay people to plan for and anticipate objections. It's also a wake-up call for pastors, elders and other church leadership to change -- or become less relevant in an increasingly secular society, whose images of church are formed by stereotypes perpetuated by the liberal left using their favorite tools: public schools, the media and socialistic government officials.

We can learn to uphold our values without judging others. The price of proselytizing is to separate the sin from the sinner and to accept the human condition, of which we are a part. Continued "holier-than-thou" attitudes only serve to push away potential believers. It also means recognizing that no matter how good we try to be, were it not for Jesus and his sacrifice on the cross, then all Christians would be considered hypocrites. Fortunately, our sins are remembered no more. This book reminds us not to be too smug about that fact.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-15 02:59:11 EST)
06-17-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Shake off the Sand
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This book is a call to an honest appraisal of the situation from the "Gallup" among Christians - the Barna Group. I am fascinated by research for what it can tell us, what it does not tell us, and the newly formed questions after reviewing what we have learned. While non-technical in its voice, this research-based book presents understandable information for the masses. The message, loud and clear, is that the way Christians see themselves and the way non-Christians see them are very different. It is time for such Christians to pull their heads out from under the sand and shake the sand out of their eyes, ears and mouths.

This undesirable "outsider" perception of Christians is far from what they are called to be by Christ. How Christians handle this will be the test. To argue that Christians are being perceived unfairly or inaccurately misses the book's point: that these realities are very real for non-Christians. Arguing from within the Christian perspective, Kinnaman calls for better listening, consideration and grace for outsiders of all stripes. A truer expression of Christ is the answer.

My only objection is the definition of "born-again Christian" (in the glossary) which focuses on "go[ing] to heaven when they die." While the book speaks of bringing heaven to earth, this definition may leave readers confused.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-01 12:04:21 EST)
06-05-08 2 3\4
(Hide Review...)  Does it matter?
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I was very interested to read what this book was about. it didn't take long to find out though the author is a part of the Barna Research group, that he would rely on what the stats say. His target group was the Busters/Mosaics (18-29 yrs old). He used what they said about Christians and then pointed out that in order for Christians to reach this group they needed to make some changes. I kept thinking would Jesus change his message to reach a specific group? Jesus had a general message, but he also had a specific message as the need arose, the women at the well and the rich young ruler would be examples. No the gospel message is what it is, the Good News of Jesus Christ. People are going to accept it or reject it, not on our delivery, but on how the Spirit of God is moving in the life of the person receiving the message. Books like this tend to tell us in order to reach people today we need to change the message so it is acceptable, would the Apostle Paul agree? I don't think so. If this book is right in one area, it's that Western Culture does think it has a corner of the market on the truth. Ask a persecuted Chinese, or Muslin Christian if they wonder what a 18-29 year old thinks about them, and they will say no. The important thing is that the gospel message is being delivered every where. We need to stop walking on egg shells around people and preach the gospel!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-17 00:12:16 EST)
06-03-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Just a thought
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The previous reviews and the book express a theme very common in the New Testament. The description of the understanding of "christian" sounds an awful lot like the biblical description of the Pharisees.

Both Jesus and Paul were condemned by the religious people of their day for "not being Jewish enough" (by the understanding of the Jewish culture of their day). I would think that the non-religious people of the New Testament had the same opinions of the traditional religious people as are found in this book.

Perhaps this is not a new issue, but the same old issue: over time the traditional church drifts away from what God desires to do with people inside and outside of the faith. And the words of Jesus, then and now, are intended to bring them back into the purpose of God.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-05 14:33:34 EST)
06-03-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  that explains it
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this book was disturbing enough to spark a fire in me and my church. we recently completed a series called "unchristian" based on the discoveries of the barna group presented in this book. with ammunition to find out if this was true locally, i went to atlanta with a video camera and a microphone. amazingly, all the people we interviewed shared the same opinions as those presented in the book. this book accurately depicts the viewpoint of those on the outside looking in. i highly recommend all Christians and all pastors read this book. it will challenge the modern church to change methodology without compromising the message of Jesus Christ and His Kingdom!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-05 14:33:34 EST)
05-27-08 4 1\1
(Hide Review...)  Thorough study on what why non-christians are staying right where they are...
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This study is extremely comprehensive and yet the facts and statistics are so compelling that it doesn't drag down the text into monotany at all. If you are unsure about how to evangelize or what you might be up against when taking on the "great commission" this is a must read. Everyone who is leading people in the church should know the truth about how they are being percieved from the outside and re-position themselves with the knowledge that will enable you to move forward through this generation of skeptics and moral relativists. Have fun reading and implementing programs that will help your outreach to become more effective!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-03 00:12:59 EST)
05-23-08 1 1\3
(Hide Review...)  Bigotry is still bigotry
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This book started off good and provided new insights as to what the new generation of folks believe about religion and religious issues. Basically he says there are many legitimate reasons why the younger crowd is turned off by Christianity. In some respects, very interesting book.

Why, then, did I not finish? Not only did he feel homosexuality is a sin, but his smugness comes through as he feels Christians need to take a more accepting of these poor "homosexuals". I almost threw up. Those church folks, who still believe it is a sin, will continue to see the young folks leave in droves. These people are perverting the teachings of the Bible to fit their own bigotry. They are no different from folks who waived the Bible in the air to defend slavery or to reject women's suffrage. That will not bring the younger crowd in.

It is ironic. He is writing primarily to those conservative Christians to tell them what they can do to bring the younger generation back to church. As long as they have these outdated beliefs, such as homosexuality is a sin, they will not be able to reach the younger crowd. I couldn't even finish the book.
As long as these Christians continue to believe homosexuality is a sin, they will be perceived as anti-gay.

In the process of studying the views of the younger generation, he was able to break this generation into three parts: 1) a group that he calls "outsiders" are composed of atheists, agnostics, those belonging to another religion other than Christian (which he includes "Judism, Islam, Mormons and unchurched adults who are not born again Christians" in this group); 2) Mosiacs (those born between1984 and 2003) and Busters (those born between 1965 to 1983).

Through his findings, he concluded that this group of people with 70% believe the Bible may not be completely accurate, but many do believe it has much good values which will help in their lives. Younger crowd seems to also believe that Jesus was not without sin and it is possible to have a meaningful life without "Jesus".

Disdain for evangelicals is strong among this group. (I wonder why?) In fact only 2% see evangelicals in a positive light.

The outsiders believe Christians are anti-gay (91%), judgmental (87%) and hypocritical (85%). Only a small percentage strongly believe that the labels "respect, love, hope, and trust" describe Christianity. Only a minority believe Christianity is genuine, or a religion that makes sense, or relevant to their lives. Most believe that modern Christianity no longer seems Christian".

The author says the majority of these younger folks believe in marriage equality and allowing gays to adopt children.

Even though the book itself was a disappointment, the hope is with the younger adults who tend to say no to bigotry and who have a different perspective on religious beliefs. There is hope.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-28 00:12:11 EST)
05-21-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Evangelical Leaders Must Read This
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If the research presented in this book is anywhere close to accurate then evangelical leaders must, absolutely must, take a long, hard look in the mirror. If we had set out to look as bad as possible in the eyes of our non-believing neighbors, I don't know that we could have achieved a favorability rating of 3%. 97 out of 100 of our neighbors between the ages of 16 and 29 believe that we're either harmless or harmful.

It is clear to me that there are serious, serious flaws in the way we've been "doing ministry." The fruit of our efforts -- usually heartfelt, passionate, and often well-resourced -- is that of the 85% of our young neighbors who know someone who claims to follow Christ, 85% of them see no difference at all in the way their Christian friends live.

This not a perfect book; if I could give 4 1/2 stars I would on account of the research methodology. I have concerns about the ways Barna and his organization delineate evangelicals and born-agains, and though I'm not a sociologist I know enough about survey research to believe that better metrics could be created than the already very good ones currently on offer.

So there is ample fodder for quibbling if anybody wants to do that. But to indulge in such sniping around the edges would be to avoid dealing with the very hard facts presented in this book.

Read it, and weep. And then pray and fast and study and work to figure out what 21st century evangelicalism ought to look like. As good as the 20th century version may look to some of us...well, it's not about us, is it?
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-24 00:11:36 EST)
05-15-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Great Experience
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unChristian is an in depth, world's view of Christianity. Or, rather, Christians themselves. As a Christian, it makes me look at myself in a more intense light. What do people see when they look at me? Is what I saying matching what I am doing? The research in this book tells it all! Read carefully, and be prepared to blow your mind!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-21 01:32:31 EST)
05-15-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  A Need is Needed
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What have we become? What have we done with our faith but trash it for political agendas and attempting to 'reclaim american for Christ"?! We have sadly became blinded, as "christians", by following and living by slogans that tickle the ear, instead of living and following Scriptures that convict the heart through our ears!

Jesus was a radical with His Message and rebel in His Ministry on earth. He felt our pain, He cried, He was hungry and homeless, He lived as we lived, so He may say in His own way, "I been there."

When will we realize that we no longer live out the commandments of Christ? When will we see that Webster's dictionary comes closer to defining the "Christian" better then our lives reveal. It was once said that if we want others to know what we believe, they should just watch how we live our lives.

We need to wake up people!!! We need to see that we fail Christ when falling for religion, what Christianity has become! It don't find how to live as a Christian should in Pat Robertson, or James Dobson, or any religious organization that represents only a bigger agenda of conforming minds by their words, instead of transforming hearts by The Word.

People, we need to wake up, and The UnChristian is just evidence of that need.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-21 01:32:31 EST)
05-04-08 1 0\12
(Hide Review...)  How many ways can you say hypocrite?
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In recent years the Barna Group has been focusing on the failures, rather than the success of Christianity. It wasn't bad enough when George claimed that no spiritual transformation at all is occurring in the brick-and-mortar traditional church. Now the new president of his organization reiterates that position by basically saying that the Christian church is a hotbed of hypocrisy that is turning off enthusiastic young converts and supporters.

What else is new? What do you expect from a generation growing up on Mario Brothers and Grand Theft Auto that only learns to communicate via text messaging?

Discipleship is based on discipline. And that is the one thing sorely lacking in our Christian lives today. It is the fallacy of attempting the mass marketing of the pretense that to be a Christian all you have to do is try to be a nicer person and send in your tithe check that is tragically transparent to a youth culture that has grown up having to sort out truth from the hype and pitch of deceptive advertising.

Ironically, the Bible says it all: "You must be born again." "The old has gone, the new has come." The big lie of the postmodern church is that conversion from unrighteous living to righteous living is a lifelong process, but the Bible clearly says it is a complete rebirth and an instantaneous happening: either you walk as Christ walked or you walk like the other guy. It does not say "Try to be perfect", but it says point-blank, "Be as perfect as your Heavenly Father." The Old Testament makes it very clear. Only one person every 500 years or so makes it to perfection, and it takes 144,000 of these perfect ones before Christ can return. So the only really redeeming value of this book is that it clearly documents, using statistical research, what is really obvious to the rest of us: "our righteousness is like filthy rags", just as the Bible says. This book is dull, statistical, and redundant. Kinnaman needs to stick with research and leave the writing to the writers...
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-20 02:10:44 EST)
05-02-08 3 0\4
(Hide Review...)  Where is my free shipping?
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The product is fine... I however deliberately ordered more books so I would qualify for free shipping. When I received my books, I found that I had been billed for shipping.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-20 02:10:44 EST)
04-22-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Depressing and Hopeful at the same time.
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This book is the fruit of a 3 year study of perceptions that those not it in the church have about Christians and the church. Simply put, Christianity has an image problem.

One surprise to the researchers was "many Christians have lost their heart for those outside the faith" (p.14). To me, that's a no brainer seen true by simple observation.

The title term "unChristian" takes it's clue from the most common reaction to our faith: "Christians no longer represent what Jesus had in mind, that Christianity in our society is not what it was meant to be" (p.15).

38% of those surveyed (2 out of 5) have had a "bad impression of Christianity" and 1/3 said that Christianity represents a negative image with which they would not want to be associated (p. 24).

Another lesson learned from the research is that "Christians have become famous for what we oppose, rather than who we are for (26).

Inside each chapter is an analysis of the most common points of skepticism and objections to Christianity, and how the church can reshape the perception.

For example, the term "Sheltered." The perception is that "Christians are boring, unintelligent, old-fashioned, and out of touch with reality." The solution is to reshape that perception as "engaged, informed, and offer sophisticated responses to the issues people face" (121).

But reshaping is not playing with semantics. The book is a call to action and provides practical steps and suggestions for pastors, church leadership, and lay people.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-03 00:24:06 EST)
04-05-08 4 1\1
(Hide Review...)  A Must Read
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UNChristian is a must read for anyone who is concerned about the relevancy of the Evangelical Christian faith to the younger generations. More than just exposing the serious perception problems, UNChristian offers alternative perspectives and responses that are meaningful and helpful. UNChristian is also easy to read in a few sittings.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-16 14:44:21 EST)
04-01-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Heart breaker
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Hopefully if you read this book it will break your heart and ruin you. Sad but unfortunately true
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-05 19:30:48 EST)
03-31-08 5 (NA)
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An excellent resource and must read for any minister and lay person wanting to reach the current generation and build the future of the church. While some of the results will be hard to swallow, in reflection, they are true and the research is sound. We had a book discussion with twenty-five year olds and found the findings in the book supported.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-05 19:30:48 EST)
03-19-08 2 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Belaboring the obvious...
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Most thoughtful Christians (unChristians?) are aware of the problems; I was looking for some decent courses of action aimed at correcting them. Not here.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-01 13:03:10 EST)
03-17-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  An Important Work
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Being creative takes courage, both in the act and in navigating the consequences generated by creativity. So David Kinnaman's ability to convert a pile of statistics into potential - potential to change a person's perspective and, thus, to change their life - is, in my view, nothing short of a corageous work of art.

To call this book "art" will undoubtedly be dismissed as gross overstatement. No matter, because the potential described in these pages offers promise to those of us deeply wounded (and in many cases irrevocably harmed) by the unChristianity that has infected our lives.

The author has woven what are essentially damning stats into a tapestry accessible to every level of reader and every relevant point of view held. The information presented is practical and extremely useful for all sides because of its open and honest nature. And Kinnaman weaves with a non-judgemental humility rarely seen in my experience. He could have undermined the results or come down hard on the Christian community; he did neither. His capacity for compassion resonates across every page. And he does something that brings an even greater credibility to this work: he invites other thoughtful and humble individuals like Jud Wilhite, Margaret Feinberg and Leroy Barber to address the issues that have eternal consequences for saint and sinner(if you're someone who believes Christianity is truth).

One of the most important consequences of this book is its promise of restoration. I don't necessarily mean a return to Christianity by people like me, but a return to Christ-likeness by those who call themselves "Christian." The author and contributors all display a measure of courage that gives me the courage to risk faith in followers of Jesus. And I am humbled, the edge taken off my anger, disappointment and strong sense of betrayal.

Perhaps, after witnessing this Christ-likeness in action, I'll find reason to forgive, having been led to that forgiveness by fellow human beings not bent on my return to Jesus - but interested in my heart, my mind, my ideas, hopes, and dreams. In other words, someone interested in friendship.

For your art, Mr. Kinnaman, I am grateful.

(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-19 09:52:36 EST)
03-13-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  If you only read one book this year, this is the one
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These insights are so vital to effective and appropriate evangelism, that it is one of those few books that are essential reading for any Christian.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-17 23:08:51 EST)
03-12-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Great book
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I agree with this book, and what the Author is trying accomplish. The Christian community need to be directed onto a more loving path and we need to be open and honest with everyone. No one wants to see this fake and frankly, mean, group of people w ho try and debate you into loving a God that they don't see in the lives of a lot of "Christians"
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-17 23:08:51 EST)
03-04-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Excellent, provocative, insightful read
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If you're a person of Christian faith, you will probably find this book more than a bit unsettling. Based in research, the authors help uncover the perceptions, often based in reality, that leads outsiders to accuse the Church of being UnChristian in it's behavior. Clearly, their intent is to help the Church as an institution, as well as individual Christians "hear" the concerns of those who are ruling out involvement in Christianity. And they seek to draw out the tough issues the Church needs to face where the perceptions of those outside truly are in contradiction with the character of what Christianity is supposed to be about. I happen to be a person of lifelong Christian commitment. I also happen to have a M Div from a prominent seminary. And I found the book to be very insightful and helpful. It did loose a bit of it's energy and insightfulness in the later chapters. Nonetheless, I'm planning to use it as a discussion starter for an adult class in our church. I suspect it will stimulate very engaged conversation, if not some level of controversy.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-12 16:19:58 EST)
02-27-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  UnChristian
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Haven't read it yet but it seems good so far. On time delivery and in good condition.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-04 14:44:03 EST)
02-15-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Revelatory
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This book should be required reading for everyone who calls himself/herself a Christian in the 21st century. It is so insightful to view our faith from the outside looking in and inevitably reveals how we have allowed our faith to be polluted. It brings a new haunting nuance to "gaining the world, but losing your soul" when we are forced to confront that the church may be the guiltiest culprit of this admonition when our preoccupation to be right overwhelms our conviction to heal and restore.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-27 08:09:52 EST)
  
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