Other People's Love Letters: 150 Letters You Were Never Meant to See

  Author:    Bill Shapiro
  ISBN:    0307382648
  Sales Rank:    2754
  Published:    2007-10-30
  Publisher:    Clarkson Potter
  # Pages:    192
  Binding:    Hardcover
  Avg. Rating:    4.0 based on 16 reviews
  Used Offers:    8 from $13.65
  Amazon Price:    $15.30
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Other People's Love Letters: 150 Letters You Were Never Meant to See
  
Fevered notes scribbled on napkins after first dates. Titillating text messages. It's-not-you-it's-me relationship-enders. In Other People’s Love Letters, Bill Shapiro has searched America’s attics, closets, and cigar boxes and found actual letters–unflinchingly honest missives full of lust, provocation, guilt, and vulnerability–written only for a lover’s eyes. Modern love, of course, is not all bliss, and in these pages you’ll find the full range of a relationship, with its whispered promises as well as its heartache. But what at first appears to be a deliciously voyeuristic peek into other people’s most passionate moments, will ultimately reawaken your own desires and tenderness…because when you read these letters, you’ll find the heart you’re looking into is actually your own.

• "i think UR great. wanna have wine & Tequila again sometime?"

• "I can't believe you're real, and I think about you constantly in some way or the other all day. I haven't given the finger to anyone driving since I met you."

• "With you I learned how to fight cleaner, how to talk things out better, and how to make a strong loving family out of nothing. These are priceless gifts that I will carry with me the rest of my life. One more thing you did for me: you left, and I had to get through it."

• "P.S. I look forward to your letters too much to call. Also, where do you stand on chains?"
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10-17-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  LOVE LETTERS
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THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS IS ALWAYS INTERESTING TO OTHER PEOPLE. IT'S LIKE A LOOK INTO SOMEONE ELSES SOUL.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-19 08:51:38 EST)
09-11-08 1 1\3
(Hide Review...)  Not What I'd Hoped For
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This is not really a collection of love letters at all. Not very romantic, and not even letters. It's mostly just a bunch of sex emails and scribbled notes. More confusing than amusing. Nothing special
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-18 07:48:20 EST)
05-21-08 2 1\7
(Hide Review...)  Boring, not all even love letters.
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My husband Wiley writes waaaayyyy better love letters than this. Many are not even "love letters" they are just stupid, poorly written notes. Save your time and money.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-12 09:58:56 EST)
04-08-08 3 0\3
(Hide Review...)  Love Letters
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I personally was not a fan of this book. I was excited to get it because I thought it may be interesting. While there were a couple cute letters, I particularly did not feel it was worth the money, and was boring.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-24 09:21:05 EST)
03-10-08 5 1\1
(Hide Review...)  Fun read
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i got this book for valentine's day and i found it really interesting. the best part is the descriptions at the end of what happened with the people who wrote and received the letters.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-09 19:36:21 EST)
02-09-08 5 4\4
(Hide Review...)  trust me, you'll/she'll/he'll love it!
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I really enjoy this book. There is something both sweet and scandalous about the idea of reading snippets of other peoples' love letters. Each time I pick it up I find something new that I hadn't noticed the last time I read it. The imagination whirls wondering about the writers and the recipients. It's the perfect Valentines Day!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-03-12 23:55:33 EST)
02-02-08 1 1\2
(Hide Review...)  Disgusted
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I found this book in my 14 yr old daughters room. She thought it ws OK because it saied "family" on the side. DO NOT LET CHILDREN READ THIS! This is not romance. It is sexually descriptive and innapropriate for children. Want to read descriptions of a mans c***, then enjoy. Want to see crudely drawn pictures of naked people? Again, enjoy, but it is definately not "family" reading.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-03 08:48:51 EST)
02-01-08 1 2\11
(Hide Review...)  Disgusted
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I found this book in my 14 yr old daughters room. She thought it ws OK because it saied "family" on the side. DO NOT LET CHILDREN READ THIS! This is not romance. It is sexually descriptive and innapropriate for children. Want to read descriptions of a mans c***, then enjoy. Want to see crudely drawn pictures of naked people? Again, enjoy, but it is definately not "family" reading.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-09 08:48:30 EST)
01-18-08 5 1\2
(Hide Review...)  love it!
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This is a beautiful book filled with awesome and often entertaining love letters. I'd recommend it for anyone. Makes a great gift!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-02 08:56:43 EST)
01-14-08 5 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  very happy
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I was very pleased with my purchase...the book was in great condition and arrived before the specified date.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-18 21:38:47 EST)
01-13-08 5 3\3
(Hide Review...)  Sweet reminder about love
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Other People's Love Letters by Bill Shapiro is a fascinating peek into love: its beginnings and endings, and the twisted path between. Shapiro, whose website has many more of these letters, asked his friends and exs for old love letters. They, in turn, asked others giving Shapiro a huge range of letters to choose from in making this book. From sweet text messages, to post divorce rants, these letters are enjoyable and insightful. It's amazing how similar letters written in the first throes of love are: you're amazing; I can't live without you. But Shapiro tried to pick letters that said something deeper and love and the human condition. It's not a book you want to read in one sitting; reading too many back to back makes them lose their potency. But taken in small doses, it's a great way to remember how good love feels in the beginning and how sweet it can be after many years. Some of my favorite letters were the ones written by married couples several years in. Shapiro includes a short epilogue with brief stories about some of the couples who wrote the letters. Reading these made the letters even more powerful, especially the one from a husband serving in Vietnam in 1969. A great read, perfect as a Valentine's Day gift; give it with your own love letter!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-18 21:38:47 EST)
01-09-08 5 2\2
(Hide Review...)  Wonderful
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I bought this as a gift for a friend, but after browsing through it, was quite tempted to steal it back from her. There are some really adorable heart-warming notes, & some notes of love gone awry. Not just a book for the romantic, but for the skeptic too--some discourage and show love's pitfalls, but also many leave you terribly optimistic. I highly recommend it.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-14 09:18:30 EST)
01-07-08 4 (NA)
(Hide Review...)  Good book for artistic value...
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I thought this was a great book...however, it's not "juicy" love letters like you would expect, but more unique love letters. In some instances, you only get to see a portion of the letter instead of seeing it in it's entirety, and in other portions the letters you are reading aren't at all about love. Either way, I am a big fan of "Found" and "PostSecret" and I think this book is right up there with them and hope to see more editions.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-09 09:28:57 EST)
01-03-08 5 3\3
(Hide Review...)  Not Your Usual Collection of Love Letters
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Accidentially on purpose, Bill Shapiro read a love letter left on his girlfriends counter, not once, but three times. Thus began his collecting of love letters. Not your usual collection of letters, not always the undying love type, these letters will make you laugh, cry and at times make you glad that crazy obsessed stalker like people have found others to write to.

At the end you will find a post script to some of these letters that will warm you heart all over again. Designed in very much the same way as the Post Secret Books, this is a great gift to share with your friends.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-07 09:32:14 EST)
12-26-07 5 2\2
(Hide Review...)  Must Own This Book
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I called every bookstore the day Bill Shapiros novel came out to see how many copies they had in stock. I then bought it for everyone on my Christmas list. Not one person was dissappointed. Each read it in one sitting and could read it over and over again! I hope he comes out with many volumes of this because it is such a silent pleasure to be able to experience the romance, the loss and the heartbreaks of other peoples love lives.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-04 09:35:53 EST)
12-07-07 5 6\6
(Hide Review...)  You'll find yourself in many of these stories!
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I loved reading these love letters although some of them were truly "hate" letters!! But honestly, you think you are the only one with these very strong feelings about someone you love or are infatuated with and then you read one that sounds just like you! Very ironic-we are all only human... All looking for love and to be loved unconditionally if at all possible!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-27 09:15:43 EST)
11-28-07 5 17\17
(Hide Review...)  Powerful Collection ... Would Make a Great Gift
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Finally, a way to read other people's love letters without betraying someone you know or risking getting caught, hurt, or overcome by guilt. But the pleasure isn't simply voyeuristic. These letters pull you into the world of the writer/recipient/lover/loved (It's the experience of reading novel, but with nicer graphics and way fewer words!), but also make you reflect on your own relationships, the things you do and don't express, the complex range of feelings you have all at once, the way feelings change over time ... They run the gamut from tear-jerking to shocking to laugh-out-loud funny and represent a range of relationships at all the different stages--which makes reading them not only illuminating but also reassuring: All these people, old and young, effusive and reticent, articulate and, um, less so have experienced the intense highs and lows of new love, unrequited love, lustful love, lost love, etc. and survived (at least enough to have contributed a letter to this book). Bottom line: great read, excellent gift.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-07 09:16:50 EST)
  
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