"You must find a teacher or a leader. Look for one who empowers you to hear the truth in your own heart. Look for one who loves you without seeking to control you, one who is able to tell you her truth without expecting you to agree with it. Find a teacher who honors you and treats you with dignity and respect. By her fruits you will know she is your teacher." Paul Ferrini

Reverend Doctor Mama Iyanla Vanzant, you and this book have done this for me. Thank you.

This book speaks to me on so many different levels. As I was reading this book, so many memories began to pop up and I know now that it is time to heal those wounded areas. This book has given me insight on even a deeper level to truly empower myself, love deal and heal. Thank you Iyanla Vanzant for being such an instrumental part of my life. Thank you for sharing so much of you to support every individual that reads this book. This is life changing.