Have a New Kid by Friday: How to Change Your Childs Attitude, Behavior & Character in 5 Days
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Anyone who has dealt with a strong-willed child knows that it is no easy task to turn bad behavior around. But the popularity of TV programs like Supernanny and Nanny 911 shows that parents have had it up to here and are ready to try anything to get their children to behave. Bestselling author and psychologist Dr. Kevin Leman is here to help. Have a New Kid by Friday shows parents how to reverse negative behavior in their children--fast! With his signature wit and encouragement, Dr. Leman offers hope and real, practical, doable strategies for regaining control and becoming the parents they always wanted to be. Focusing on changing a child's attitude, behavior, and character, it contains chapters for each day of the week and a special section with advice on everything from rolling eyes to sibling rivalry to talking back to punching walls and much, much more. This large section of more than 100 specific topics is indexed, allowing parents to flip immediately to any areas of concern for witty, straightforward, and gutsy plans of action. EXCERPT FROM CATALOG I've got news for you. Since the beginning of time, kids have been unionized, and they've got a game plan to drive you bonkers. Don't believe it? Take a look around.In today's society, kids even shorter than a yardstick are calling the shots. Some hedonistic little suckers of the ankle-biter battalion have even graduated to emeritus status and are holding down the hormone group division. Then there's the already-adult children who return home to your cozy little nest and stay and stay and stay. You know all about that. If you picked up this book, you picked it up for a reason. You'd like to see a few things--or maybe many--change in your house. You may have small concerns, or big concerns, about your child at this point. I'll be blunt. You got a big job to do as a parent, and a short window to do it in. If you believe that you, as a parent, are to be in healthy authority over your child, this book is for you. If you don't believe that you, as a parent, are to be in healthy authority over your child, put this book down right now and buy another. But I've got a Midas muffler guarantee for you. If you stick to the simple strategies in this book--strategies that any parent can carry out--you'll have a new kid by Friday. You can have a great kid, and you can be a great parent. Your relationship with your child can change in just one week.
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| 11-23-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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"Have A New Kid By Friday" is the most relevant, down to earth book I've ever read on child rearing. Kevin Leman has compiled a "how-to" list of difficult situations parents face in every day life in an easy to follow, easy to implement way that makes following the book enjoyable for the parent, life changing for the child... preserving and enhancing relationship and accountability.
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| 11-22-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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I am very pleased with the book and I am already following it with my 13 year old son. I would recommend the book to other parents,grandparents and teachers.
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| 11-17-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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i gave this book to my daughter and she was having difficulty getting my grandson potty trained. He is two. Within a week of using this book as a guide, he is potty trained.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-30 02:55:20 EST)
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| 11-14-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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After my pediatrician recommended anger therapy for my 5yo, I thought my world was falling apart. I picked up this book on the advice of a friend and I can honestly say that my boy is now a happy, content, well-adjusted, peace-filled normal child. He understands what it means to be a part of a family, to pull his own weight, and he is finally just not angry any more. I guess he was modeling my behavior - but not anymore! Now I walk away and no longer "vomit" my own anger on him. It took longer than a week, but our problems were bigger than mere disobedience. Now all my children are benefiting from this new method!!!
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| 11-08-08 | 4 | 1\2 |
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Half of the book is instructional and the other half is question and answer. I read the book in about 2 hours. The information presented is clear, easy to read, entertaining and helpful. Basically the author discusses how to avoid power struggles with your children and still be a firm and loving parent. I would not consider the book a must read. However, it is helpful and a good book to balance out your parenting skills. I do recommend the book.
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| 10-24-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Very practical and you can put it into action immediately. I have seen major results in my daughter and also got the CDs so I could immerse myself into an action plan. My daughter is 6 and I wish I had this book when she was 1 as there is a section on potty training that would of helped me so much. I highly recommend this book.Have a New Kid by Friday: How to Change Your Child's Attitude, Behavior & Character in 5 Days
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-12 03:20:03 EST)
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| 10-21-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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"Have a New Kid By Friday", by Dr. Kevin Leman is a down to earth and
simple yet profound solution to solving the constant parental stress that we as parents often hold onto because we want our children to be the best that they can be in life. The problem is that our perspective and the child's perspective on getting to goals are not always the same. The book focuses on adjusting our attitudes so that we can in turn help our children develop good character. Some of the best advice on child rearing can be found in this book such as, "Say it once, turn your back, and walk away." And, "Let reality be the teacher, respond to your child - don't react, and 'B' doesn't happen until 'A' is done." The book is about loving our children and in that love, giving them the freedom to become responsible for their own behavior while maintaining a healthy relationshihp as a family. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-25 00:14:07 EST)
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| 10-12-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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After reading numerous parenting books and being a very busy father with very little spare time to read these books, How To Have a New Kid by Friday is clearly the best. The first 5 chapters lay the groundwork and all the examples that follow explain the execution of the principles. I have had a remarkable improvement in my kid's behavior after using the recommendations of this book. Clearly a must have for all parents.
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| 10-08-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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this is one awesome book that is changing my grand son for the better since his mother my daughter is useing the principles laid out in it.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-13 01:23:19 EST)
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| 10-08-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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I liked the book, but think that it all can be covered in 1-2 chapters instead of all the pages used. Just like it up to the point....
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| 09-22-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Every parent should read this book! Well written and humorous. Gives terrific ideas on disciplining your children.
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| 09-15-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Great book, the author really knows what he is talking about, My mother in law and I both read this and both have benefited greatly. She has her five year old granddaughter and I have three kids 8,2,&1. My dealings with my 8 yr old and 2 yr old have gotten so much better. This is a must read for dealing with stubborn kids!
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| 09-12-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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This doc knows what he is talking about. I feel empowered as a parent.
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| 09-09-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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This book is amazing. You can truly have a new kid in a week if you follow the principles listed in the book. It takes work on the parents part to be disciplined to follow through with the suggestions given in this book but it works.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-12 02:41:37 EST)
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| 09-07-08 | 1 | 1\3 |
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I cannot recommend this book for anyone, anywhere.
The author chooses expedient ways of dealing with issues, as opposed to actually taking the time to understand one's child. According to his philosophy, the answer to almost every negative situation is for the parent to turn their back and walk away. Issues aren't dealt with; there is no encouragement toward examining the root issues of behavior. It is all about making life easier for the parents -- hence the title. Leman really lost my respect, however, when he advocated locking a 4 year old child outside, at night, because she would not go to bed. The child was allowed back in the hoouse when she agreed to go to bed without negative behavior. The parent in this situation is triumphant that there were never issues with bedtime again after this happened. But think about it. If someone locked YOU outside, AT NIGHT, at the age of 4, you likely wouldn't be making anymore trouble, either. This is not a parenting success.....this is abuse, cloaked as parenting. I am angry that someone with as many years of experience, with as many books sold as this man, would write such irresponsible information and then pass it off as good parenting advice. I would highly recommend "Confident Parents, Remarkable Kids" by Harris. The emphasis is on relationship with one's kids, not just making problems go away at whatever cost to kids and parents. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-10 01:13:10 EST)
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| 09-05-08 | 5 | 2\2 |
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Dr. Kevin Leman's approach can help you turn over a new leaf in the relationship between you and your child(ren). The two most meaningful lessons I learned were A must be completed before B can happen and to let natural consequences happen. Dr. Leman gives many examples in his book to guide almost any situation you may have. However, I realized that it's MY attitude that had to change the most for success to happen.
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| 09-05-08 | 5 | 2\2 |
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Since reading this book and putting the principals into practice I have received many comments about how the kids have really "matured lately". My children and I have noticed our relationships have improved not only between us as parent & child but also between them as siblings. This book was such an easy read in respect to principals, sometimes not so easy with regard to conviction of bad parenting habits, but all in all I have and will continue to recommend this book.
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| 09-05-08 | 5 | 2\2 |
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I have four children one of them a very rebellious teenage girl. A friend of mine recommended this book to me and I'm so glad I ordered it right away. It has helped me see the mistakes I've been making like repeating myself to her, and doing too much for her that she can do herself. It has given me tools to help get through to all my children. I've finally taken my parental power back where it belongs! It's work but well worth it! I've highly recommended this book to friends and family!
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| 09-03-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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We have a simple household. We don't do much. Which makes things this book suggests hard. From what I gather, this book is based on activites your child enjoys being taken away or put off until the task you've asked to be done (and you tell them only once) gets done. I actually have to put things in our schedule to make that happen! Even then, my kids don't care. So where's my pull?
The hardest part is homework. (And since school just started, this would be the best time for this.) My daughter isn't doing work at school or at home right now. What she doesn't get done at school is supposed to get done at home, hence homework. But I tell her to do her work, she doesn't do it, it goes back to school and the teacher doesn't do a thing about it. So now what? I'm ready to throw the book out and go back to pushing my kid to do things. Anybody have suggestions? (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-06 01:13:13 EST)
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| 09-02-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Dr. Kevin Leman's book Have a New Kid by Friday is a must read for all parents. It offers great advice to parents with kids from infants adolescents. I found it to be one of the most valuable parenting helps I have ever read.
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| 09-01-08 | 5 | 3\3 |
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This is the best book a parent could read. It came just at the right day. If you have kids, you need this book. I thought I was a pretty good parent, I know I can make my life a whole lot better for me and my whole family.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-05 06:15:52 EST)
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| 08-31-08 | 5 | 3\3 |
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As a teacher of over 25 years and a mother of three young adults, I found this book to be refreshing. There are too many parents today who are letting their children tell them what to do, where to go, and how to do it. This book reminds parents to be parents and gives them practical and easy examples that they can use in their families. This is also an excellent book for teachers who may have a difficult student and want to find a way that will help that child turn around and become a productive learner.
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| 08-21-08 | 1 | 3\9 |
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What a letdown! Listen, if you think your kids are "hedonistic little suckers," then maybe this book is right for you. There is very little content; it's the informational equivalent of junk food from McDonalds. An example of the kind of advice you'll get: if you ask your child to take out the trash and they forget, then let them guess why you won't take them to the store sometime in the future. The Guess Why I'm Not Happy Technique has never worked with my dear husband; why would anyone expect it to work with a child? I wouldn't call that Assertive Parenting, would you? I'd call that Passive-Agressive parenting, and who needs a book for that?
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| 08-16-08 | 2 | (NA) |
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After the reviews I read I thought for sure this book would be a cure-all for the problems with my 3 year old. Unfortunately, many of the examples set & ideas to follow are aimed at older kids, and are mostly common-sense. I would still recommend this book to anyone with kids older than 6, and anyone lacking common sense in raising your kids.
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| 08-09-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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Dr. Leman deals a dose of practical parenting advice I knowo I needed to read. In Have a New Kind by Friday, you will get the real scoop on how to change you kids' behavior instantly with actions, not words.
Most of all, you will learn that their behavior has a purpose, and that if you can stay emotionaly distant from the anger you may feel, you can handle just about any issue you may face. As a mom of 4 ages 12 to 5, I needed this book! I was doing some things right, but like all parents, I needed some help as well. And this book was just the shot in the arm I needed to get it right. I encourage you to get a copy of Have a New Kid by Friday now - Don't wait! Your kids are counting on you. Trish Berg Author, Book Reviewer www.TrishBerg.com Rattled: Surviving Your Baby's First Year Without Losing Your Cool A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts: Stories to Warm Your Heart and Tips to Simplify Your Holidays The Great American Supper Swap - Solving the Busy Woman's Family Dinnertime Dilemma (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-22 01:14:29 EST)
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| 07-26-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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I recently saw Dr. Kevin Leman on Fox and Friends and I immediately went out and bought Have A New Kid By Friday. After reading this book, the whole atmosphere in my house has changed. I used to have kids who were disrespectful, and mouthy, but now I have kids who listen to me-- I almost fell over the other day when my son asked me what he could do to help.
I liked the book so much that I am buying a few extra copies for my friends and family. And I am also purchasing Dr. Leman's Birth Order Book. This is a book for any parent. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-14 01:53:15 EST)
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| 07-25-08 | 4 | 0\4 |
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This book is excellent for younger kids. For older kids 12-18, I like the following two books. The Edge Effect: Achieve Total Health and Longevity with the Balanced Brain Advantage and Don't Like to Read, Then Don't, Listen!: How to Turn Any Type of Text Into Audio Files That Can Be Read to You!
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| 07-21-08 | 4 | 1\1 |
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I have three kids and can always use some new ideas and some review on old ideas. The book really helped my husband and I get on the same page. Liked it a lot. Worth the money
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| 07-13-08 | 4 | 1\1 |
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This book was recommended to me. I was at first skeptical, but was amazed to see that if used consistently, it works!
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| 07-13-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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This is a great book but you have to have a lot of patience to follow through. It does work so keep trying.
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| 07-10-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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My goodness! I wish I had this book 35 years ago! I bought it for my grandkids. I read it, and highlighted all my mistakes in a pink high-lighter, then used a yellow highlighter for my son and daughter-in-law's mistakes. My Son was not to receptive of learning these things about himself, but my daughter-in-law has read the book.
I hope they implement the book into their lives, but if they don't its their choice. I think its great. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-14 00:52:48 EST)
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I received this book as a gift from my mother-in-law who had seen the author on television. I picked it up and was appalled by most of the advice the author was espousing. Dr. Leman advocates a passive aggressive, manipulative approach to parenting and dealing with "problem children." As a new mother and an elementary school teacher of many years, it scares me to think that there are people out there who read this book and act on his advice.
Rather than see children's bad behavior as a reflection of family dynamics, Dr. Leman essentially places all the blame on the children and absolves parents of any influence or wrongdoing--making them out to seem like innocent bystanders who just happen to have kids with 'tude, to use one of his favorite sayings. He tells parents not to deal with children's behavior directly and or try to foster healthy communication. He instead insists that situations are best dealt with parents giving back the same attitude their children are giving them. How does that solve anything? Shouldn't parents be good role models for their children rather than immature or petty? In a way, I can't stop reading it to see what he's going to say next...it's like watching a train wreck. I recommend looking elsewhere for parenting advice! (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-08 06:12:14 EST)
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I received this book as a gift from my mother-in-law who had seen the author on television. I picked it up and was appalled by most of the advice the author was espousing. Dr. Leman advocates a passive aggressive, manipulative approach to parenting and dealing with "problem children." It scares me to think that there are people out there who read this book, act on his advice, and probably create more troublesome dynamics within their families.
Rather than see children's behavior as a reflection of complex and complicated relationships within the family and among family members, Dr. Leman essentially places all the blame on the children and absolves parents of any influence or wrongdoing--making them out to seem like innocent bystanders who just happen to have kids with 'tude, to use one of his favorite sayings. He tells parents not to deal with children's behavior directly and try to foster healthy communication but instead insists that situations are best dealt with parents giving back the same attitude their children are giving them. What is he thinking??? In a way, I can't stop reading it to see what he's going to say next...it's like watching a train wreck. I highly recommend looking elsewhere for parenting advice! (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-07-07 09:56:52 EST)
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| 07-06-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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This was a helpful book with some new ideas that I hadn't personally thought of to try and for most part, they are working. I appreciate that another experienced parent took the time to write down what has worked for them and to share their thoughts and ideas with the rest of us. It's definitely worth the read.
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| 07-06-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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This has to be one of the most enjoyable books on being a real PARENT that I have read... ever. I recommend it to anyone who deals with children. (I have been teaching for 22 years, and I hear my own parents' voices loud and clear in this book!) It's full of funny (because we have all been there) stories and common sense advice about being an ADULT who cares for children. The book reads quickly! You can't stop reading until it's over! It's THAT good!
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| 07-06-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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Wonderful! I used this book along with Making Children Mind without Losing Yours. I bought these books out of frustration with my terribly two son. I wanted new ideas or suggestions in dealing with him, but more than anything to grow positively as a parent. I started the other book first, but began this one on the following Monday. I highly suggest reading both together, especially if you feel a little frustrated. I definitely lucked out finding this book. It was an answered prayer. We have a totally different household! I am even more excited to have read this before my 2 and 4 year olds get any older. Thank you!!!
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| 06-26-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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As a mother of four adult children and a (young) grandmother of four, I knew I wanted this book! By the time my strong-willed toddlers had become teens I had painted myself into a corner with popular "democratic" parenting techniques that eroded my confidence and credibility. Though I had the good sense to balance my limited parenting skills with boatloads of prayer, this doctor's prescription would certainly have saved some gray hairs! With his classic humor and encouraging style Dr. Leman offers steel reinforcement to those with noodles for backbones. I look forward to putting these techniques into practice when my grandkids come to visit - and putting a copy of this book into the hands of my adult kids.
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| 06-13-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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Wow! What a difference Dr. Leman has made in our parenting! These simple techniques are more effective than I ever imagined they would be, and I've already got all my girlfriends putting them in action. He offers practical, easy-to-follow advice that can be applied without yelling, and without threats.
We could actually see a difference in our kids in only a few days. Don't pass up this opportunity to take the relationship you have with your kids to the next level. The newfound peace in our home is a much welcome relief. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-26 14:43:23 EST)
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| 06-10-08 | 5 | (NA) |
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Excellent book! I am the mom of 11- and 15-year old boys, 17- and 19-year old girls (one away at college). I read the book in three days and began to implement the straight-forward suggestions. I saw results in one day! After two days my 15-year-old son asked if I was trying out what I was reading. I told him I was and asked what he noticed. He said, "Well, we are arguing with you a lot less." Music to my ears!!! I am no longer a frustrated mom. Being tough is sometimes hard but it pays off in the long run. I have recommended this book to at least six people in the past week.
Have Sanity by Friday!! And a new calm, loving home!! (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-13 01:11:45 EST)
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Oh my gosh. We keep 2 of our grandchildren quite a bit on weekends and during summer etc. We would be exhausted by the time they went home. They are really good kids, but there was the bickering and our granddaughter is a big whiner. There were also complaints, I'm bored etc. This book helped my husband and I get on the same page with our handling situations that would arise. What a difference. Say it once and walk away. Do not let yourself get into an arguing match with them. Let the kids work out their own problems. Last, but not least, say no. The kids do not need every toy or something every time you go to the store. This book really works. It takes only a few days. Highly recommend this to any grandparent, parent or anyone in child care.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-13 01:11:45 EST)
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| 06-01-08 | 3 | (NA) |
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I think the content is good, but I actually got more out of his "Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours" book. It was just a little too general for my taste. I think his points were great, I just found myself wanting more detail! I didn't realize, however, that most of the book is comprised of "Ask Dr. Leman" topics which actually work great as a reference tool on an "as-needed" basis. Overall, I trust anything he writes - he's got the right ideas for parenting!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-10 01:13:59 EST)
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| 05-29-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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Kids these days are entirely too wrapped up in themselves and it's the fault of the parents. There are certain things that are givens in life and a parent can't prevent these things from happening, no matter how much they might want to. For example, no one can be happy or feel good 100% of the time. Someone has to lose. That's just life and the sooner one learns to deal with these things the better. This book provides answers to some of society's "smallest" problems--maybe I should say "shortest". I found a lot of good, common sense ideas with clear explanations of how to implement them and what to do until they were second nature. I would recommend this book to every parent and will consider it as a baby shower gift. I wish it had been around when I first started having children.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-06-02 01:11:40 EST)
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| 05-16-08 | 4 | 1\2 |
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I'm still not through this book, but the insights that Dr. Leman gives are pretty amazing. He doesn't try to make it comfortable for you to realize what you're doing that could be improved, but he doesn't attack either. I highly recommend this book to all parents, regardless of whether they have a "problem child" or not.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-30 00:03:53 EST)
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| 05-08-08 | 5 | 3\5 |
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I'm not done with the book yet but what I've applied so far has worked wonders! Easy to read & follow. Very practical & wise advise. I'm loving it and recommending it to friends.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-05-21 00:05:36 EST)
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| 05-05-08 | 5 | 3\5 |
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This has been a very helpful book. Good insight, gives good practical ways to promote behavioral change.
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| 04-25-08 | 5 | 6\6 |
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This book has been a sanity saver! I bought it because my husband and I were having discipline issues with our oldest daughter, who is only five. Our parenting styles were completely opposite and our daughter knew it. This book has helped us come together and focus not only on disciplining our children, but also helped us realize our own insecurities and how that affects our parenting. This is a must read for those who are struggling with parenting and want their children to grow up with a strong self-worth.
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| 04-24-08 | 5 | 4\5 |
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this book is so easy to read, and also to use later as a reference. the main points are stated in larger print throughout the pages, so it's a quick trigger to your memory. great book!
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| 04-21-08 | 5 | 0\1 |
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The "child by Friday" was for a family member who is pleased with the book. The second purchase was "Friday Nights" no problems with this.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-25 13:23:29 EST)
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| 04-20-08 | 5 | 2\3 |
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Quick read with easy to follow advice. Very relevant for any aged kid -- very young through early adult. I am using it's advice now and enjoying the results.
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| 04-15-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Want a kid without attitude? If you're tired of defiant attitudes and power struggles with your little ankle-biters or the disrespectful hormone group, read this book and follow the simple principles, and you'll have a new kid by Friday. Guaranteed! (from the back cover)
Have a New Kid by Friday is a five-day plan, Monday through Friday, that Dr. Leman swears really works. He shows us: * Why kids act the way they act * The 3 most important things every parent wants, and how to teach them * 3 simple strategies for success * 3pillars of self-worth and how to develop them * Be the shrink--launch what you learned on your unsuspecting child At the end of the book an A-to-Z appendix offers straightforward advice and gutsy plans of action on the hottest parenting topics--including bedwetting to talking back and much more. I love this book! The first day I picked it up, I read the introduction and the chapter for Monday (there are chapters for Monday through Friday) and I already saw some areas where I was going wrong with my teenagers. I implemented a change right away, and the result was positive. Dr. Leman's plan of action actually works. If you are having problems (or just want to stop problems before they start) with a child of any age level, then pick up a copy of Have a New Kid by Friday. This book is guaranteed to work--if you follow it's principles. Armchair Interviews says: Good help for any parent. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-16 13:20:58 EST)
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