Devotions For Dating Couples: Building A Foundation For Spiritual Intimacy

  Author:    Ben Young, Samuel Adams
  ISBN:    0785267492
  Sales Rank:    25800
  Published:    2002-09-10
  Publisher:    Nelson Books
  # Pages:    224
  Binding:    Paperback
  Avg. Rating:    4.0 based on 19 reviews
  Used Offers:    26 from $8.55
  Amazon Price:    $10.19
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Devotions For Dating Couples: Building A Foundation For Spiritual Intimacy
  

Today, there is a great deal of emphasis on the mystical and intangible nature of relationships but very little emphasis on the real, practical steps involved in building an enduring love. In contrast, authors Ben Young and Sam Adams place great importance on the value of spiritual compatibility in Devotions for Dating Couples.

Designed especially for highly committed or engaged couples, it helps readers:

  • Understand and avoid the most common barriers to spiritual growth
  • Have an increased desire for fellowship with God
  • Share and explore spiritual issues together
  • Pursue godliness, personal relational health, and wholeness
  • Each of the nine sections includes Scripture quotations, suggested meditation passages, and discussion questions, as well as anecdotes from real people including the authors. Intended as an eight-week study, weekday devotions are to be completed by both individuals, and each weekend study is to be completed together as a couple.

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    11-24-08 5 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Great starter devotional for dating or engaged couples
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    My now husband & I read this last fall before getting engaged. It was the first book we went through together as a couple, and it provided a great base for us to get to know each other from. Every chapter gives a few verses/passages to study & discuss. The method that worked great for us, was to study a chapter throughout the week on our own (making notes everywhere), and then getting together to discuss them on Sunday mornings after having breakfast together before heading off to church (either at Panera or my parents' kitchen).
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-28 11:50:24 EST)
    11-06-08 4 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Good help on staying focused
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    I think this is a good book to use to generate discussion in a relationship on spiritual matters. My girlfriend and I are using it while I am deployed to Iraq and it has allowed us to continue to grow together and challenge each other more than I ever thought we'd be able to do.
    The topics are pretty simple and basic. If you're looking for something really theological, this probably won't be your best choice, but I would recommend it for couples who are Christian and want to grow together toward Christ.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-24 09:57:16 EST)
    10-31-08 4 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  great, but not quite what i expected
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    my boyfriend and i are wrapping up our last week of this book. we loved the book because it reminded us of things that we need to be thinking about in our own Christian lives, but also allowed us to grow spiritually together. we liked it because we could each do our own part during the weeks, so it was easy and we could fit it in when we each had time and on the weekends we always planned in time for us to do our devo together. i think the only thing we weren't as impressed with was that there was really only 2 or 3 of the devos that really focused on us as a couple and i guess we were maybe hoping for sometime more couple-focused instead of just sharing our own individual thoughts on that topic.
    overall, an excellent book to grow both individually and as a couple!
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-11-07 10:01:32 EST)
    04-13-08 3 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Perhaps Dating, but not Engaged
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    While trying to develop a pattern of 'doing the devotions' and spiritual intimacy, my fiance and I decided to give this book a shot. It was readily available and seemed to cover all of the bases.
    I for one was slightly disappointed. Growing up in the church and having a personal relationship with God since a young age, I felt that the daily lessons were lacking in depth. Maybe great for a younger couple who are just starting out on their spiritual journeys, but I found myself saying 'okay, that was it?' and wanting more.
    In the book's defense, I must say that as an engaged couple we may not be the target audience. This book did spark some good discussion and definitely helped to instill the need of doing a devotinal every single day. We were both just disappointed with the lack of true depth for a more mature relationship.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-08-29 09:02:46 EST)
    04-13-08 3 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Perhaps Dating, but not Engaged
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    While trying to develop a pattern of 'doing the devotions' and spiritual intimacy, my fiance and I decided to give this book a shot. It was readily available and seemed to cover all of the bases.
    I for one was slightly disappointed. Growing up in the church and having a personal relationship with God since a young age, I felt that the daily lessons were lacking in depth. Maybe great for a younger couple who are just starting out on their spiritual journeys, but I found myself saying 'okay, that was it?' and wanting more.
    In the book's defense, I must say that as an engaged couple we may not be the target audience. This book did spark some good discussion and definitely helped to instill the need of doing a devotinal every single day. We were both just disappointed with the lack of true depth for a more mature relationship.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-10-31 09:59:25 EST)
    02-25-08 4 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Excellent For Starting Out On Your Spiritual Journey
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    My girlfriend and I had been dating about 4 months when we decided to start having devotions together. We knew that we wanted to start a spiritual journey together as a couple and this book really helped us get started. Although some of the content is pretty basic and common sense, especially if you have been a Christian for a while, the book still provides great opportunities for sharing and discussing biblical material regarding Love, Community, Simplicity, Prayer, Forgiveness, and Purity. I think it is an excellent tool to begin a spiritual walk with your partner. After going through this devotional book, we feel so comfortable opening up to talk and pray about God's plan for our future, and that's the first step to a blessed and fulfilling life together!
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-14 08:46:49 EST)
    10-19-07 3 (NA)
    (Hide Review...)  Completed with my girlfriend, a good book
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    My girlfriend and I did this one together. It's alright, but not great. if you're in a relationship and are looking for something to connect you spiritually with your s.other, then read this. Don't expect anything life changing though.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-25 08:56:49 EST)
    03-17-06 5 3\3
    (Hide Review...)  Great study!
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    My Boyfriend and I are almost through this study, and we have learned a lot about God, and about each other through it. It is great doing something like this together and being able to keep each other accountable. I recommend this to any dating couple who wants to grow closer to God and to each other!
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-10-20 09:07:18 EST)
    03-16-06 5 3\3
    (Hide Review...)  What we expected
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    While some complain about the lack of depth in conversation questions, I would call it an opportunity for free discussion. Because the questions are rather general, one feels much more free to allow the conversation to wander from the original topic, providing more insight into the beliefs and backgrounds of your dating partner.

    As far as the format, there is simply nothing else out there. We looked hither and yon for an individual bible study with weekly couple components. This is it.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-10-20 09:07:18 EST)
    03-16-06 5 1\1
    (Hide Review...)  Great study!
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    My Boyfriend and I are almost through this study, and we have learned a lot about God, and about each other through it. It is great doing something like this together and being able to keep each other accountable. I recommend this to any dating couple who wants to grow closer to God and to each other!
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-04-10 11:28:14 EST)
    03-15-06 5 2\2
    (Hide Review...)  What we expected
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    While some complain about the lack of depth in conversation questions, I would call it an opportunity for free discussion. Because the questions are rather general, one feels much more free to allow the conversation to wander from the original topic, providing more insight into the beliefs and backgrounds of your dating partner.

    As far as the format, there is simply nothing else out there. We looked hither and yon for an individual bible study with weekly couple components. This is it.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-04-10 11:28:14 EST)
    01-29-06 3 7\7
    (Hide Review...)  A non-threatening primer
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    My girlfriend and I were trying to find a book that would just help us get in the habit of doing devotions together and praying together, and for the most part, this book did the trick. While some of the topics covered will seem old-hat to people that have been raised Christian or been Christian for years, they sometimes serve as a nice "refresher course" - something every Christian needs now and then.

    Overall, I felt this book was very non-threatening, and a good way to accomplish the goal we were trying to meet. If you're looking for a way to introduce devotions in to your relationship without making it seem like a chore or a source of conflict, this book is a good bet.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-06-24 23:52:03 EST)
    10-18-05 4 1\1
    (Hide Review...)  Dating Devo
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    My girlfriend and I are just finishing this devo up this week and I must say that I have really enjoyed it. My girlfriend and I have gotten many hours of discussion and learning from the book. I kind of agree with other reviewers that it can be simplistic but it is the beauty of it as well, and we say it as more of a guideline for more discussion which is why whenever we got together to go over the questions we were discussing for hours. I would recommend this to any couples as a good first devo together and then maybe moving onto devotionals that go deeper.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-06-24 23:52:03 EST)
    10-17-05 4 1\1
    (Hide Review...)  Dating Devo
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    My girlfriend and I are just finishing this devo up this week and I must say that I have really enjoyed it. My girlfriend and I have gotten many hours of discussion and learning from the book. I kind of agree with other reviewers that it can be simplistic but it is the beauty of it as well, and we say it as more of a guideline for more discussion which is why whenever we got together to go over the questions we were discussing for hours. I would recommend this to any couples as a good first devo together and then maybe moving onto devotionals that go deeper.
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-02-17 02:59:16 EST)
    07-16-05 5 3\3
    (Hide Review...)  Digging Deeper...Together
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    This book has been amazing. My boyfriend has gone to church all his life and I started in 7th grade, we're now Freshmen in college, but we've know eachother for about 6 years and have been dating now for 2 years. I have always been slightly intimitated by his praying and his knowledge of the Bible but this has really opened up lines of communication that have enabled us to dig deeper and to honestly want to encourage eachother in our quite times as well as keep accountablity. Some of the Saturday discussion question have really allowed us to be real and to trust in eachother on a whole other level. We are still working on the book but it has already helped us to continue in our desire to glorify God in our relationships both with one another as well as others around us and to also hit home base on some topics that are never discussed. I'd recommend it but make sure that you pray about it and that it is something that God wants for the BOTH of you to do. :)
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-06-24 23:52:03 EST)
    07-11-05 5 1\1
    (Hide Review...)  great book
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    My boyfriend and I read this book daily in the beginning of our relationship. We have just finished it, and it truly has helped us to grow closer and make us discuss spiritual issues. It has also brought us each closer to Christ. I recommend this for couples that are not engaged, just starting out and wanting to keep the relationship well-grounded in Christ. The scripture references for each day's reflection are awesome!
    (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-06-24 23:52:03 EST)
      
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