Its a book every women will benefit from unlike many other books on the same subject...this book is simple, easy, clear, and right to the point.
Simply I LOVED IT and read it twice :)

This is a hilarious book. There are so many truths that you can find out about yourself by reading it. I have to admit, there were times that I was so shocked at what I discovered about myself that at some point my jaw dropped!

Basic training in relationship self-respect for women, wrapped in humor.
Recommend it for all women, as well as "Why Men Marry Bitches.."

Good refresher for those of us widowed or divorced, as well.

I had a friend recommend this book, as she had heard other non-married women recommend it. I think it is pop psychology at it's worst and I like pop psych usually.

If you are truly a doormat in all facets of your life, can't say no, then buy the book.

If you are single, because you have focused on your career and have a limited dating pool then don't buy the book.

If you like the book "The Rules" then again you might like it. I think dating as a grown up requires throwing out the rules, being honest and enthusiastic to meet new people. This book doesn't suggest that as a solution versus once again the single woman is told "it is all you." It could really be you, I don't know you ;-)

The book is written in a satire format which is amusing, but I read about half of it and said enough. I do have a friend who I think maybe could use the book, but I am afraid she might take it literally. So for now it lies beside my bed and I probably won't finish reading it.

I LOVE THIS BOOK! I READ IT AT LEAST 10x AND CONTINUE USING for REFERENCE.Argov points out some really important things that a lot of women forget once they are really into a someone. They forget to love themselves. If you have never read this book it's a must have. I live by Argov's advices, and most of the advices worked in my personal experiences.

This is a great book. Alot of the things mentioned in this book are common sense but there are alot of good tips that make sense. This book explains everything you need to know to understand why men love bitches.

What this book is really about is being strong and not letting some random guy walk all over you. It's not necessarily about being a bitch, but more about being assertive and not some push-around. Every woman should take the time to read this one, along with another: Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man. Combining both, I've found I am A LOT happier in my dating life. Good luck.

After reading Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man, I was on the lookout for more books about female empowerment, and, boy did I find it in this one! It's not about being mean, it's about getting what you want out of life and not sacrificing yourself in the process. A total must-read, along with "Man Magnet"!

this book is so true in many ways, it was a great refresher for those who have been in a long term and now single again.and for the new to dating group.remember you are number one not the guy...keep your life...it is ok to be a bit tough in your ways...respect.....

This is the BEST book on relationships I've ever read. I wish it was written 30 years ago. I made most of the mistakes Sherry writes about. If this book was around I could have saved myself a lot of heartache. I flipped through one of my co-worker's copies and went right home and ordered both her books. I read it over a rainy weekend, and couldn't put the book down. Buy a copy for yourself, your best friend and your Daughter.

This book is worth every penny. The advice is short, to the point. Her take is that you should not give up your own life for just any guy. You should be able to hold your own in a relationship and feel respected by the man you date. You are the prize. You are the jewel. Do not sell yourself short and accept just any treatment from just any guy you meet.
Good luck in the dating world.
Mary b

This book is worth every penny. The advice is short, to the point. Her take is that you should not give up your own life for just any guy. You should be able to hold your own in a relationship and feel respected by the man you date. You are the prize. You are the jewel. Do not sell yourself short and accept just any treatment from just any guy you meet.
Good luck in the dating world.
Mary b

When I started reading this book, I thought that maybe it was not for me. Maybe I am already a bitch... I value myself and I would never put up with some of the situations the author describes as a no-no in her book. But as you progress towards the end of the book you start identifying with so many patterns that it is scary to think it might have been your fault the last time a relationship did not work! So, we value ourselves a lot in the beginning of a relationship, and then we get dangerously involved... is this our fault or the jerk's?
What got me questioning this book is the fact that it is not worth getting involved with someone who won't love you for who you are. I am sorry, but pretending I am someone else for the rest of my life is not my idea of happiness! Instead, I prefer to push away those guys that love to hunt. My purpose in life is not to make some jerk's life challenging and fun.
The mistake in this book is to sell the idea that you can transform a jerk into a prince by following simple rules of behaviour. People don't change, they grow, and that takes precious years that you may want to spend with someone else instead! Someone who has already grown up, perhaps? It's not that hard to find (and I recognize I am talking about men here)!
The fact is, you can transform a jerk into a prince temporarily, and most likely in the beginning of the relationship while he is still trying to impress you... but he will return to his jerky way of being as soon as you marry him, so why bother?
This book is all the way worth it, but has to be read with a critical eye. Instead of transforming that jerk into a prince, follow the author's advice to drive all the jerks away. And go get yourself a nice gentleman, will you?

I absolutely love this book. I don't want to play game but guy always act mostly the same thing in relationship. So this book made me think what went wrong.

Thank you Sherry! This is one of the best books I have read about relationships with men. In fact, I wish I had read this book 20 years ago. This should be the official guide for all women (all ages) adventuring into the dating world. The younger you read this book the greater your chances of succeeding in your relationships with men.

I am the typical nice girl. I am driven by emotions and when I meet a guy I like I see him as "the one" until proven otherwise. Therefore I automatically feel that I must give my 100% to that person. The problem with this approach is that giving your 100% too early in the relationship will make him feel as if he had it too easy and will make him go away looking for a better challenge. This book describes in a very simple and funny way something that we instinctively knew but couldn't put our finger on: These fantastic and interesting creatures called men are, very succinctly, "hunters" looking for their match... therefore women need to be the smart "strategist" prey.

I always wondered why relationships with the guys I liked never worked out while the guys I was not interested in were always chasing me. After reading this book it is clear that the reason was ME. It was amazing reading some of the examples about the typical mistakes women make that will kill the sparks on a relationship. More than one time it felt like I was reading my own diary...Depressing. It made me feel stupid and ignorant but at the same time it opened my eyes.

One note of caution: I have read some reviews stating that not all men are like the ones portrayed in this book, like if this book were about "jerks". This book is not about how "bad" men are or how "good" and mistreated girls are. I am pretty sure we all agree that inherent evil has nothing to do with sex. This book is about helping you understand basic rules of human nature and principles of relationships between sexes based on the fact that men and women are different and "think" differently. This book will give you the tools that you need in order to understand how men think and perceive your actions from their vantage point so you can make yours and your partner's dating experience more interesting and enduring

My fiance and I hit a really rough patch. He was acting annoyed by my pressence, stopped wanting to be intimate and seemed tense and upset all the time.

So I made the "nice girl" mistake by trying to be perfect for him -- cooking these huge, elaborate, expensive dinners, making sure the house was spotless, buying him little presents, etc. Nothing worked. I was convinced he had fallen out of love with me or was cheating.

Out of desperation, I went to the bookstore and grabbed a stack of relationship books hoping for some insight. One of the ones I came across was, "Why Men Love Bitches".

I read the chapter on nagging and realized that I complained A LOT to my fiance about EVERYTHING over and over again. I saw myself in that chapter and learned how I was pushing him away and nagging makes a woman come across as needy and unappealing. Also, the author explained that nagging is ineffective with both men and women because it makes the person being nagged feel like the nagger is trying to control them

I bought the book and immediately followed the advice of that chapter. I took my nagging from a 10 to a .5 and gave my fiance a little space. I also stopped sweating the small stuff, like how normally I'd go off on him for leaving his boots in the bathroom

The next day, my fiance did most of the things I normally nagged him about without asking (ie: making the bed, washing dishes, feeding the dog). Then, he came home from work early for the first time in a month and cooked me dinner.

We were intimate twice the following night (HE intiated it for once, not me!) and his whole attitude toward me is more like it used to be when we first started dating.

So yeah, this book may have a flaw or two in some people's eyes, but to me it's what you make of it. I think the best thing to do is read it and motify the advice to fit your particular situation. Thats what I did and it has been working great for me.

I was going to start off saying I wish I had read this book sooner, before committing the nice girl mistakes in my past two relationships. But, if I hadn't gone through what I had gone through, I would have said the book's advice was crap - of course nice girls win. Which guy has not said he likes the girl-next-door type?

But now I know why the relationships went downhill the moment I went from independent woman to needy girlfriend. I gave up my needs and let my happiness and schedule revolve around the man. I now solemnly swear to be happy and confident regardless of whether I am alone or with a man. Only I can be responsible for my own happiness.

That said, one area that the book could be improved on is to give some advice on when a girl can give, albeit a little. Like when the guy waits too long to make his move, a little signal of interest could whet his appetite. Otherwise he may conclude the girl is not interested at all and give up.

Not necessarily bitchy is what men want, but they oddly enough don't like to walk all over their women. (Coulda fooled me!!). I'm working with this. Doesn't seem to make any difference in the men in my life if I kowtow to them or assert myself. If I kowtow I'm needy, if I'm assertive I'm a bitch. Basically it's telling me what I should have known all along. As women towards men, we are damned if we do, damned if we don't.

This is a MUST read for every girl!!! The title catches your attention but what's written in this book, every girl must follow. There are too many "nice" girls out there don't know the truth. And the truth is in this book. It says exactly how it is. It's not about being a bitch, but just holding your own. Two thumbs up!!!! :)

I have mixed emotions about this book. I wanted to give it two and a half stars, but since that can't be done, I very fairly gave it three.

Yes, I agree we women should not allow ourselves to be doormats to the man in our lives. I also believe that we shouldn't be with a guy who would treat us that way in the first place. It's about respect, and if you truly love someone and they you, there'll be mutual respect there.

Why Men Love Bitches seems to be a book about how to play games with men. Not something I really agree with. I don't want to be taken for granted by my man, but I don't want to have to always be a challenge to him either. If the relationship seems like too much constant hard work, is he really going to think it's worthwhile hanging around? I don't think so.

While no one should be a doormat or be taken for granted in a relationship, I don't believe relationships should be based on playing games either - Not those types of games. It was an interesting book to read, but there are others on the subject I like better.

Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man

How To Keep Your Man: And Keep Him For Good

I've actually not read the book but, I was reading some of the introductory information here on this site and I was intrigued. I understand where the author is coming from and for the most part, I think the principles she provides make sense to a point. Just remember that there are a lot of immature people out there who are "users" both men and women. Find someone who is as passionate about you as you are for them. Someone who is mature and looking for a relationship with some content. This will eliminate a lot of the game playing. Take time to get to know someone before getting into a relationship. Relationships are like investments. If you just throw your money around pretty soon it loses value. Long-term minded people are careful and take their time.

I agree with some of the other people who have commented about clinginess and that sort of thing. If you do that, you need to wake up. As much as you can examine the other person to see if you want to be with them just remember the coin has a flip side. Look at yourself and the person you are interested in or dating from an overall perspective and see what improvements can be made.

There is so much worldly advice on relationships, kind of like dieting, that it is confusing but, I believe that you attract others who are similar to you. If you're someone who sleeps around you'll attract the same. If you're nice you'll probably attract someone nice. Birds of a feather flock together!
I agree that men are more attracted to a strong independent woman who knows where she is going but, is still feminine and kind. Whatever type of woman you are, you shouldn't (as a single) rely on a man to come along and take care of you. Go out and get your career and success.

Anyway, maybe I'll read the book for kicks!

Though this book has a crass title, the author has an incredible sense of the immutable, unalterable laws of human attraction. Her writing style is such that you can't help cringing as she describes the women who act so desperate, or thinking how cool they are when they act confident.

The truth is, this book isn't about "male vs female" psychology. It's about powerful, fundamental truths that are the same for both sexes. These truths can be summed up in a few principles:

- Everyone wants to feel lucky to be with whomever they're with
- No one wants a clinging vine

The way to get there is to:

- Be cool, but not angry
- Never try to force or control

If you know the true meaning of the word, then "Blessed are the meek" says the same thing.

The great thing about this book is it gives you a true feel for how unattractive, or attractive, any of us can be. If you're one who keeps making the same mistakes in relationships and ending up on the short end, read this, and you'll see yourself as your intendeds see you. You'll also see how you will be seen if you play by these rules. You may as well accept and play by these principles - you'll never beat them.

Or you can save yourself the money and just ask yourself, in times of weakness, "Does the person I yearn for act like he or she feels LUCKY to be with me?" If the answer's "Not so much", you better do something fast to turn it around, or they'll be gone. The good news is you really can do something about it. You CAN act cool even if you're caving inside.

A book I like even better than this one is called "Love Tactics: How to Win the One You Want". This book is also about these fundamental truths, with things you can do to turn a bad situation around in a hurry. It also covers more situations and is more helpful in letting you know what you can actually do in these situations where you're not getting respect. The authors' belief is that romantic desire is composed of three things:

- friendship - listening, having fun, being supportive
- chemistry - that physical attraction
- respect - the other person knows that you're willing to walk away rather than allow anyone to treat you with disrespect.

It's a great book .

For me these games are over as I finally found my soul mate, the love of my life, the woman of my dreams. But it took me 54 years and a LOT of heartache to get there. I hope you're a quicker study!

I am guilty of being one of those women the "Nice Girl." Too clingy, too nice, always changing my plans to accomodate.This book has helped me to see where I've made mistakes and how to easily remedy them and gain my man's respect and attention! If you have felt like a "doormat" you have to read this book. Another great book that I recommend is How to Snag a Guy and Keep Him Hooked: 99 Ways to Make Him Ache for You Both books are worth buying!

I actually discovered this book while searching the bookstore for something else. I ABSOLUTELY reccomend it to any women who is sick of dealing with the games men play and who want to change the way they react. A friend bought it, and shared it with me. We were AMAZED by some of the things that we have read and have since moved onto "Why Men Marry Bitches" which is another work of art. Sherry Argov obviously knows what she is talking about here and gets much of the imformation right from the hourses mouth! It was a fun read too! No doubt you will find yourself calling your other single friends to share your incredible insites with them as well!

I wonder how many relationships (and self-esteem) I could have saved in my life if I had read this book before...

This book is full of so many good points that it should be a required reading to all women, of any age. We always forget that we should think about ourselves first... making our first and biggest mistake!

This book can REALLY help you to keep the man you love BY YOUR SIDE!

After reading it, I gave this book to my 18 year old daughter, she has passed it on to her friends... and we all have benefited from the advices... regardless of our 26 years age gap!.

I just started reading it again!

A rather misandristic selection of "solutions" and surveys, masquerading as a self-help guide for women.

I've read it twice already and will keep it around for when I need a little reminder. I've recommended it to many friends.

I really liked this book but I think it would have been more helpful if I wasnt in a year long live in relationship. This seems better suited for a single woman starting a relationship or looking to have fun, there wasnt much advice for woman who are in long term relationships or woman who live with their spouse, but overall so far some of the techniques have worked.

The problem with this book is that the author has written it from her own perspective - looking at her photo, she is a reasonably attractive woman, who could afford to play the games she suggests in her book. But to any but the extremely attractive, whose beauty may offset an ugly personality for a while, this advice will guarantee either a permanent state of singleness, or unhappy relationships based on manipulation and exploitation. 40 years of feminist misandry has ensured that the western world is well oversupplied with b**ches, who have ruined the chances of normal relationships for countless normal men and women, and the last thing any responsible person should be doing is encouraging the formation of more.

These tactics will chase away the nice guy you may chance to meet, and will guarantee that you end up with the male equivalent of the b**ch, the jerk, as these men are far more likely to put up with what they see as just a difficult personality for physical gratification. And one can't really blame them - books like these make a woman's personality so unlikeable, that there's nothing to like about her anymore but her body. But when that goes too, the b**ch has nothing...

To all the non-b**ches who are reading this, please don't let this ignorant 'advice' destroy just that feminine spirit which most appeals to the non-jerks. I cannot think of a single man I know in a long-term relationship whose partner would qualify as a b**ch. On the other hand, the b**ches I know are the perennial singles, except for a brief period in their 20s when their bodies compensated for their personalities.

Now when i mean great , i am talking about really great. This book was the best I have ever read in my life. Sherry teaches you the simple things you can do. With every chapter, I tried this and the results were amazing. I lent my friend this and she wants a copy to keep for reference. This book i will definately recommend for single women or even women in a relationship who wants to hold their relationship. Its great. I'll give it 6 stars. Yes thats how great it is. The techniques used are remarkable. It's all about being a bitch. Now being a bitch is not being bad. Its being nice but you are letting them know you have a life, and you are living your life,they have to make time for you not the other way around. Too many times we women change our lives trying to incorporate men into it, we cancel plans just for them. This is a big NO. Do not cancel your plans and abide by their every rules. You cant always be available for them. And thats the trick. Its so simple i never thought that would change mens behaviour but it did. Now i have men calling me and tyring to fit in to my life. How amazing is that! Belive me i think evey woman should have this book.But you wont understand fully what I am telling you until you read this yourself.Go ahead, i encourage you to take the challenge ! and Best of luck!!

Nirmala Bissoon

Why the author keep using the word "Dumb Fox"? It's quite unnecessary. It ruins the whole structure of the book. She can easily say the smart girl. Yack ...

This book is basically a catty manual for women with low self-esteem who don't know how to communicate their wants and needs when in a healthy relationship. It gives advice on how to sneakily manipulate a situation to your advantage, rather than telling you how to best fix it in a manner that both people in a relationship can understand and are okay with.

An example from the book: your boyfriend is too lazy to fix something around the house. The author recommends that you get another man to do it, so that your boyfriend feels threatened enough to do it and jumps to the task. Rather than, say.. telling your boyfriend that you find it disrespectful that he won't help out and asking him again to do it for you, so that way he actually understands why his girlfriend is upset and knows to have more respect in the future.

Yes, the women outlined in this book really are b*tches. They are playing mindgames in order to gain attention from their spouses. Instead of being honest about how they feel, they are being taught that the only way to handle a situation is to pretend you don't care, or to be mean about it, or to ignore it altogether until he crumbles at the knees in confusion, hurt and defeated. That's not okay and it's a recipe for disaster.

Of course, the author makes it look like it's okay to abuse a man's emotions because so what? They're all jerks anyway, right? No. And that's the entire mindset projected in this book. It's practically spilling off the pages.

Men are not mindreaders, and they're not perfect. They need to be told when something is wrong, instead of tricked into fixing it without ever knowing what was wrong or why. Women should not have to be vindictive and passive-aggressive to get their relationships to work/their boyfriends to care about them.

Basically, everything in this book is unhealthy and teaches all the wrong lessons.. a "dreamgirl" is not a b*tch who plays with people's emotions. A "dreamgirl" is a woman who can be honest, peaceful, and open; yet knows how to stand up for herself in the right way - which is with truth and confidence. REAL confidence, not just a display or a fake attempt at "holding their own," whatever that means. Unless you want to end up getting divorced, I'd highly recommend not following any of the "advice" this woman spews.

Sherry Argov freely admits that she uses the word "bitch" as a tongue-in-cheek way to grab your attention. She describes a bitch as a woman who is confident, independent and self-reliant, traits that men find sexy, attractive and intriguing. Argov portrays "good girls" as available, overly nice, accommodating and needy - characteristics men find off-putting and boring. Had this book been written 20 years ago, it would have been cutting edge, but you've probably heard the core of Argov's advice before (much of it is reminiscent of asking why a man would want a cow if he could get milk for free), from your mother and grandmother. She's just wrapped it in new rhetoric with a cute flair. Although her basic premise - men like independent, confident women with an "edge" - rings true enough, it's barely enough to fill an entire book. Argov disguises this sleight of hand with clever writing, witty one-liners, scattered "attraction principles," humorous stories, relatable examples, large type and a lot of repetition. If you don't find the whole idea a little passé, you'll have a good time. getAbstract recommends that you read this book in snippets whenever you need a chuckle or a shot of self-confidence as you play the catch-and-keep-a-man game. Of course, real women don't play games - as Argov would be the first to tell you.

If you have to manipulate someone to get someone then you will have to manipulate him to keep him. If you have to gauge every call you make, every meal you cook and everything you do, you are with the wrong person. I tried some of this person's tips. I dated a man for seven months and never let him know I really liked him and that it bothered me when he played the come closer go away game. Her tactics were very effective. When I blew him off, he came running to me. I should have asked him what he was looking for in a relationship and told him where I was at in the first month. But I didn't because I didn't want to appear "needy." She was correct in that the more unavailable I was the more he wanted me. Turns out he was dating someone else at the same time he was dating me. I ended the relationship as soon as I found out. If I'd have trusted my instincts and asked the questions her book advises women not to, I would have dropped him very early and not wasted so much time and effort. Every man I know who I have shared her advice with has laughed out loud. The women I know who are the most successful with men have also given me some advice. Throw this stinkin' book in the trash.

this book was just wonderful! Really helps with confidence and I have mentioned it to many ladies I know!

I probably wouldn't go out all the way to bash this book, but it doesn't mean I completely agree with everything the author says. If one follows her advice literally, it must be one hell of a tiring mental task you put yourself up with each day. This book might be suitable for the nearly- psychotic or the ultra-obsessive, but then if you are, get yourself proper treatment might be a better option.
Her point of the entire book(as well as many other similar books) is: be strong. It is good. Be strong so in return men will stay and protect. Well it doesn't make sense, does it?

I am surprised to see how many people are blind enough to ruin good relationships while using this book as the scap goat. This book is for you to respect yourself and your relationship. No where in this book does it say to disrespect your partner or take him for granted. I read this book on recommendation from a friend that said I remind her of the author. I agree with many points of Sherry Argov and respect what she has written. Her second book, Why men marry bitches also backs up her first book and is written with many hours of research...Interviewing MEN.

For those of you who are bashing the book because it's "sick" or "stupid" or "ruined your relationship", YOU NEED TO RE-READ THE BOOK. Ms. Argov does not tell you to be stubborn and rude to your significant other. Also, if you're smart enough, you would know that you cannot change anyone else. You can only change yourself. And that is what your man responds to. If you are in a loving relationship and everything is going well, Why would you need to use Ms. Argov's advice anyway? Think about it before blaming anyone else. Please use your brains and love yourself for who you are. Everyone can tell when you are fake and trying too hard (too willing or too stubborn). So just be yourself, and don't take disrespect from anyone, men or women.

I recommend that every single women or dating woman on the face of this earth read this book. It has changed me forever! All mothers who have teenage daughters should give this book to their daughters it will make them think twice b4 they go chasing after some boy.

I totally don't think this book is about being a b***h. It is about respecting yourself, having your own life, and not sacrificing yourself just to make a man happy. I read it, and a girlfriend of mine read it, and no joke...in 7 months we were both engaged. I wish I had this book years ago instead of dealing with heartbreak after heartbreak. This book is more about finding the right guy, and showing him you are an independent, intelligent woman, and not Suzy homemaker that he can walk all over.

I felt I already knew the answer, but I wanted to hear what the author had to say. The book only brushes over the real reason. It's a great book for someone that is totally clueless as why men really love bitches. I felt the book could have gone in more detail. This book only lightly touches the subject. I would not pay more than $5.oo for the book. The title is amazing and catchy. Some may think it's male bashing, but it's not. A good book for the clueless beginner to shed some light why they cant' be a good girl.

This book, along with her "Why Men Marry Bitches" are both must haves! The advice is honest and extremely useful. I had been going through a rough break-up and this booked helped so much! It made me realize what I did wrong and that he WAS NOT the right man anyway! I wish I would have found if a year earlier! Great Advice!

This is a fantastic book and I will keep it for when my daughter gets older and starts dating. I think every women who feels like they are being taken advantage of by a man should get this book and read it. They should then keep it close at hand and use it often. I have experienced many of these situations and wish I would have had this book when I encountered them. The outcome would have been completely different. I would say this is a must have for anyone who has teenage girls who are starting to date. It will remind them that their feelings and self esteem are important and never let a man treat you less than a dreamgirl.
The writer does this in a way that makes you laugh, but also makes you think about each situation from a new point of view.

But it won't help much in relationships....

Author Of Black Women Deserve Better

On the one hand, you don't want to be a doormat; and on the other, you don't want to be abusive...

Information in the book makes great sense! Of course some male readers might feel threatened (hence their negative reviews) but as a women this was a great book not only about holding your own in a relationship but gaining self confidence!

My fiance and I have been having a lot of issues this past week and he was falling for another girl. I was a complete doormat and begged and begged him not to leave me.

My roommate suggested I buy some books to get my mind off of all it. I picked up this book and COULD NOT put it down! It is the single most amazing book I have ever read in my entire life. And I have read just about every relationship book out there.

What she says makes SO much sense! I sit back and think to myself that I have been such a "doormat" through the last year or so of our relationship. Before that, I had broken up with him twice, but he still kept crawling back to me and now I know why. Because I was who I wanted to be and if he was interested in that person, great. if not, great. And over time I became his "mama" and have done everything this book cautions you not to do.

I however do believe that once you're in a long-term relationship, you can't do *everything* this book says. Because otherwise you might loose your man. Just do enough to keep him going "man, what makes her tick?!"

I would *definitely* recommend anyone that is having problems keeping men read this book. I bought it and EVERY thing she said I was like "yes! that's me! omg, no wonder why! Yes! Totally!" I swear she wrote the book for me!

5 stars!!

All you 'nice girls' out there need to read this! This is an amazing book, full of useful, practical information. Easy to read- I couldn't put it down! I wish I would have read this 10 years ago!!!! I have passed this to all my friends and we all agree, regardless of a woman's age, that this works!

I am recommending this book to all my girlfriends!
It's basically about self esteem and holding your own in your relationship. It helped me to see that being 'too nice' in my marriage was one of the factors in it's failure and this is the way we women are conditioned to be! It's all wrong and we get treated badly as a result and our men aren't happy either.
But then you try the bitch rules and your man is suddenly more attentive and interested, he's happier and you're getting treated like a princess.
If you're dating or if you really want your relationship to work, read this book!

refreshes or reminds you of what you have always known and offers some great advice to ease your mind that you are doing it right when dealing with the guys in your life- buy and read atleast two times...

Ok I am a woman who gives to much, trying to be nice. I read the book, But It works, its great and all my girlfriends have it. Pretty much tells you to be yourself and the right guy will pursue you. Its great!