My Love Affair with England: A Traveler's Memoir

  Author:    SUSAN ALLEN TOTH
  ISBN:    0345385659
  Sales Rank:    450289
  Published:    1994-03-08
  Publisher:    Ballantine Books
  # Pages:    336
  Binding:    Paperback
  Avg. Rating:    4.0 based on 25 reviews
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My Love Affair with England: A Traveler's Memoir
  
Journalist and memoirist Susan Allen Toth brings her special England vivdly to life as she recalls her many trips there over the years, where she explored the countryside, traveled both second-class and in luxury, theatre-hopped, hunted for ghosts, and honeymooned. Humorous, bittersweet, and wonderfully eccentric, this is a delightful remembrance to be savored by those who love to travel or just dream of it.
"I love MY LOVE AFFAIR WITH ENGLAND. It is written clearly and with a understanding that far supasses any feeling of condescension or superiority or general quaintness among the natives, all of which I detect in books about other countries."
M.F.K. Fisher
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03-20-06 3 2\2
(Hide Review...)  England as she likes it
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I find it kind of interesting that a later Susan Allen Toth book (which I plan on starting about as soon as I finish posting this review) is called "England as You Like It." The England of this book is very much as *she* likes it.



That's not a bad thing, since this is, as the subtitle says, her "traveler's memoir." Toth long ago crossed over the line that separates Tourist from Traveler, and she has the experience and the familiarity with the country that entitle her to experience England the way she wants it to be. "We know enough not to try to ogle the Crown Jewels at the Tower of London, file through Canterbury Cathedral, or pass the day at Stratford-on-Avon," she says on page 306 -- a statement I found a little discouraging since, as a well-read Anglophile who is nevertheless preparing for only his second trip to London, those are precisely some of the activities I plan on undertaking.



Instead, she and her husband spend a lot of time wandering through gardens and exploring rural footpaths. While those seem to be the chapters some readers find especially praise-worthy, experiencing those gardens and paths in print seemed somewhat pale to me. Eventually, I found myself skimming. More interesting were the chapters that were less travelogue, more autobiography. In those, she charts her changing perceptions of the country from her earliest visit as a literature student, to subsequent returns as an unhappily married professor, a recently-divorced single mom, and finally as a very happily remarried writer.



Susan Allen Toth's England is not the England I expect to experience. But then, no two people ever experience things identically -- especially not a place with as much to offer as England has. I can see why so many people respond strongly to this book as a romantic travelogue. I saw it more as her personal reminiscences of paths happily traveled, and I enjoyed it well enough on those terms, even if I never travel those paths myself.
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03-20-06 3 3\3
(Hide Review...)  England as she likes it
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I find it kind of interesting that a later Susan Allen Toth book (which I plan on starting about as soon as I finish posting this review) is called "England as You Like It." The England of this book is very much as *she* likes it.

That's not a bad thing, since this is, as the subtitle says, her "traveler's memoir." Toth long ago crossed over the line that separates Tourist from Traveler, and she has the experience and the familiarity with the country that entitle her to experience England the way she wants it to be. "We know enough not to try to ogle the Crown Jewels at the Tower of London, file through Canterbury Cathedral, or pass the day at Stratford-on-Avon," she says on page 306 -- a statement I found a little discouraging since, as a well-read Anglophile who is nevertheless preparing for only his second trip to London, those are precisely some of the activities I plan on undertaking.

Instead, she and her husband spend a lot of time wandering through gardens and exploring rural footpaths. While those seem to be the chapters some readers find especially praise-worthy, experiencing those gardens and paths in print seemed somewhat pale to me. Eventually, I found myself skimming. More interesting were the chapters that were less travelogue, more autobiography. In those, she charts her changing perceptions of the country from her earliest visit as a literature student, to subsequent returns as an unhappily married professor, a recently-divorced single mom, and finally as a very happily remarried writer.

Susan Allen Toth's England is not the England I expect to experience. But then, no two people ever experience things identically -- especially not a place with as much to offer as England has. I can see why so many people respond strongly to this book as a romantic travelogue. I saw it more as her personal reminiscences of paths happily traveled, and I enjoyed it well enough on those terms, even if I never travel those paths myself.
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12-28-05 5 2\2
(Hide Review...)  Light reading. Much more than a travelogue.
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Within its genre, this is a 5-star book, but it's obviously just light entertainment. What makes it so endearing is the author's very personal anecdotes. Nowhere in the reviews on the jacket were there any references to the very personal romantic interludes she writes about. I am convinced that Susan Allen Toth fell in love with England because of whom she shared it with. Had she shared Prague, Czech Republic, in the same way with her significant others, we would be reading about Toth's "Love Affair with Prague." This will most be enjoyed by romantics, and those of us who were (or wished we were) flower-children of the 1960s. It must be a bittersweet memoir for Susan to re-read. It's the kind of book I would enjoy reading out loud to someone who has shared the same kind of traveling experiences.
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08-30-02 4 5\5
(Hide Review...)  A very personal book.
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This is a lovely, personal account of the author's many trips to England. But this is not just a travelogue -- I would not recommend it for planning your trip. (I always like maps and pictures in my travel books, and there are neither here.) In fact, it's less a travel book than a peek at her very personal diary, looking at England from a unique, gentle and fun perspective as she talked about herself, her marriages, and her family. MY LOVE AFFAIR WITH ENGLAND made me very much want to go see the England she described. She obviously loves the place. My favorite part: the footpaths! After this, I plan to read her other books on England, too.
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02-25-02 5 1\5
(Hide Review...)  My Love Affair With England: A Traveler's Memoir
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This is a must read before traveling to England! Or even better, read it while you travel though England. She brings the country to life.
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10-31-01 2 4\7
(Hide Review...)  Shortsighted traveller
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Susan Allen Toth's "love affair" with England has little to do with the country or its people and their lifestyle. Her "love" seems to hinge upon its providing an excuse to use her walking stick. While endlessly describing footpath after footpath and public garden, Toth rarely raises her nose out of the turf to appreciate the culture around her. In fact at the conclusion of an anecdote about the few months she spent living in London, she freely admits that she discovered she couldn't stand to live there. So why spend hundreds of dollars on airfare when she could be walking uncomplainingly on the trails and in the gardens of her American hometown? Why so many travel writers ignore the people of the country they profess to love is beyond me. Perhaps it's the ugly American tourist attitude that every country would be perfectly enjoyable except for all the "foreigners."
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10-22-01 5 2\3
(Hide Review...)  Joyous Memories
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This book brought back so many pleasant memories. The author and I are the same age and experienced our first trips to England a year apart. Her descriptions and adventures are right on target. The disclosure that Brits are helpful and friendly is so true. Finding that they will go out of their way to assist you is exactly what my family and I discovered. I cannot compete with the number of visits (only 6 so far) but have covered much of the same ground. You can see and smell the gardens she describes so beautifully. One can feel the earth beneath ones feet as she wanders the many footpaths available in England. Adjusting or not to inconveniences comes off as amusing and tolerable. Along with experiences she interjects more than a smattering of English History. This book makes you want to hop on the next plane and begin wandering that lovely and historic isle.
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07-12-01 5 2\3
(Hide Review...)  A pleasant trip for Anglophiles.
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....I enjoyed every scene in the book.

Actually the format of the book is a bit disjointed and jumps unexpectedly from one visit to another, not necessarily in chronological order. Also she digresses at times to give us a glimpse of her marriages and brief affairs. But instead of distracting from her narrative, these elements add interest, in my opinion. After all, she is describing a love affair, not offering a travel guide.

This certainly is not your usual travelogue featuring the most popular attractions of the nation. Toth usually gets off the beaten path to find the real England, discovering many places and facts that the average traveler would not have the ingenuity nor the energy nor the nerve to uncover.

I found the trip thoroughly delightful and am looking forward to reading another of her books about this quirky but fascinating country.

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06-05-01 5 0\2
(Hide Review...)  Couldn't put it down...
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Susan really takes you there in this book, (the first of hers I have read, but not the last.) I really felt like I was there and could smell the flowers in the gardens and feel the dampness on my face. What a treat! Anyone who is going or just dreaming of going, buy this book!!!
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03-28-01 5 10\10
(Hide Review...)  Especially for confirmed Anglophiles
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I loved this book. Having had several Brits recommend Bill Bryson books the last time I was in Britain, I was disappointed that he was rather whine-y and not all that funny. Susan Allen Toth, however, is a kindred spirit. I enjoyed reminiscing based on our shared experiences (the love of English footpaths, and Britain's lovely breakfasts and teas) and look forward to my next trip and trying some of the things I had not experienced before, such as omelettes and gardens.

I have travelled to other places and enjoyed them very much, but there is something special about England. This author has a gift for articulating those special qualities. I found myself smiling often as I read these pages and drinking more tea than usual. I would say that this book would be more enjoyable for someone who has already been to England rather than someone who is trying to plan their first visit there.

I can't wait to get back to the U.K. -- or to read Ms. Toth's next book -- and I would like the people of Britian to read this book and see that *this*, rather than Bryson's, vision is the one I carry for their lovely isle.

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02-06-01 3 16\17
(Hide Review...)  A Good Companion for Armchair Traveling
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If you're dreaming of seeing England but won't make it this year, pick up this cleverly written little book instead. Susan Toth's witty, conversational tone makes for an easy, enjoyable read. But don't confuse it with a travel book. This is instead a journal of Ms. Toth's many trips abroads from her adventurous back-packing with a friend at age 20 to the disastrous honeymoon with her first husband to her exploration of gorgeous gardens with her second husband. Reading this book is akin to traveling with a good friend and sharing likes and dislikes.

However, the England that Susan Toth really loves is the countryside and not the bustling London. If London is your heart's desire, you might be better off with another choice. Ms. Toth is not one to stand in line to view the Crown Jewels, but she will take you to memorable sheep dog shows or on a badger hunt. My favorite chapters were those she did set in London and its environs when she was teaching a class abroad. She definitely whetted my appetite for travel with her allusions to the places dear to Jane Austen, Charles Dickens, Oscar Wilde and other literary figures.

This is a book to put you in the mood for England, a diary-like remembrance of her many trips to a country she loves. But it alone won't help you plan a trip there. For more on London proper for the book-lover, I would suggest "Mystery Reader's Walking Guide:London" by Alzina Stone Dale and Barbara Sloan Hendershott.

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11-29-00 5 2\3
(Hide Review...)  Lovely
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This is a book to sip with your tea. If you like England, you will love this account of such a glorious landscape and its people. On certain days, I miss England a lot, and when I do I pull out my copy of this book and return instantly.
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11-26-00 2 1\5
(Hide Review...)  Be warned
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I won't quibble with the reviewers who obviously adore the book, but I should say it didn't grab the Anglophile in me the way Bill Bryson's "Notes From A Small Island" did. I picked it off the bookstore shelf a few weeks before traveling to England for the first time, and the perspective she offered was too narrow to help me learn about the country.

If you can travel often and run around chasing ghosts and gardens, you may get more out of it than I did.

And prospective readers should be warned that she includes a description of a, um, romantic encounter that includes details I really didn't need to know. I actually put it down a few pages later and never got back to it.

(Then again, some folks will find that section full of practical advice!)

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11-21-00 5 1\1
(Hide Review...)  Superb
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I purchased this book after returning from England where I spent a college term. My experiences in the UK were amazing, and Ms Toth does an excellent job of bringing to life the little things that make England so wonderful. I have probably read the book 10 times, and have never tired of it. Since I can't be in England, the next best thing is traveling through the book. I enjoy her tone, describing her experiences as though to a friend, rather than a cut and dry "go here, see this"- although from some of her descriptions, I have definitely found some places to put on my schedule for my next visit.
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10-12-00 1 1\2
(Hide Review...)  Not exactly my cup of tea...
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As a confirmed anglophile, I anxiously awaited the arrival of "My Love Affair with England: A Travelers Memoir". Sadly, I found this book to be so utterly devoid of personality and excitement that I found myself wondering if Ms. Toth and I were actually thinking about the same country. I found the constant interjections about her personal life insufferably dull, and finally had to close the book permanently when I reached the chapter about a sheepdog show in south England. I've visited the UK four times and actually lived there for 7 months during one visit, but I can honestly say that if I'd read this book before my first holiday, I would have cancelled the trip.

That said, I'm aware that different people have different tastes. For a relatively unadventurous, sedate, (dare I say it?) mature reader, this book would probably help you while away a few relaxing hours. Personally, I didn't care for it and I consider that to be quite significant given the amount of passion I have for all things British.

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08-01-00 5 3\3
(Hide Review...)  Almost as good as being there
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Since I won't be able to go to England this year, this book nearly made up for it and I became an armchair traveler instead. The author writes as if she is talking to her best friend about her trips - there were several times when I wanted to chime in or ask her more questions! I am looking forward to reading the other two books she has written about England and would love to be a part of a tour group she leads!
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06-06-00 5 11\11
(Hide Review...)  M.F.K. Fisher endorsed this book....
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When I read Toth's book, I had not yet read M.F.K. Fisher. Fisher's endorsement of this book is on the cover, and that makes sense to me as there are similarities in their writing styles. Toth has written many articles on her travels in England. She has compiled this information into a number of books. Some the books concentrate on a particular location in Englan -- as she puts it one that fits under your thumbnail when you hold it to a map. This book is a distillation of her various trips to England between 1963 and the early 1990's.

Ms. Toth writes autobiographically, sharing her ups and downs. I've learned to listen to what she suggests. Probably the most important chapter in the book, "1984-1992, On the Sunny (If Wrong) Side of the Street--travels with James" tells about life in the fast lane, or wrong lane from the American perspective. A couple of decades ago my husband and I made our first trip to England together (I hadn't read Toth then) and we rented a car. I will never forget our arrival in Bath where my husband jumped out of the car and handed the attendent a 10 pound note to drive it 20 feet and park it. This followed a day of his learning how to negotiate roundabouts and driving on the wrong side of the road while I navigated, the hedgerow slapped the mirror an my side, and I screamed in fear. It was 10 years before we could laugh about our first driving trip in England and we took trains, cabs and buses for a long while, but finally mastered the road only to discover the enormous increase in traffic has made much of southern Engand like LA at rush hour. On my last trip, I went back to subways and trains. If you are a very nervous person or this is your first trip don't rent a car.

I enjoyed all the chapters, but I liked the "Among the Alchemillas" best because I've learned Ms Toth knows where to go to find the best gardens. It's not enough to buy a book that lists all 10,000 gardens. I want someone to tell me what they found. As Ms. Toth points out, the English have a different idea of what constitutes a garden. I have followed her footsteps more than once and been rewarded.

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03-19-00 4 2\2
(Hide Review...)  Finally, a kindred spirit!
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I LOVED this book! It captured my own feelings about England, as no other book has. She covered all the little eccentricities that make England unique and addictive. It made me homesick for the wet green countryside that I so adore and return to as often as possible. It will encourage and excite a first time visitor and induce a longing in those who have already been blessed to visit this historic and magnificent isle. Get it, read it over and over again anytime you feel like making a return journey and haven't the funds to do so, BUY THIS BOOK!
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07-30-99 4 4\4
(Hide Review...)  This is a charming lovely book... good not great
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I loved the chatty comfortable style of the book. I'm soon traveling to England for the first time and it made me wish I had done it years earlier. I liked the "thumbprint" style of traveling. It describes the way I like to travel exactly. I like to settle in and explore in all directions throughly before I move on. I loved the story about the dog show but I was familiar with it from the film, "Babe." Good book!
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05-24-99 5 1\2
(Hide Review...)  One of the best books I have read
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I want to thank Mrs. Toth for writing such an inspirational, prevocative book. I too have a love affair with England, and whenever I miss the glorious place, I can always curl up and read her memiors!
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05-16-99 5 1\2
(Hide Review...)  attractive and romantic in its own style
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It catched my eye because I was planning to go to U.K.visiting my friend about a month ago. Not like the normal book that mentioned about the fantastic beauty of th scenery, but the atuhor descibed a lot of her own feeings and daily life's trouble. Yet what she did was made the scenery has its own meaning and specialities. All remind you about the nice or unchangeable companion of the mother nature. You may be poor or suffer, but you can still enjoy your life in your own way. Now I am in U.K. for my unforgettable vacation ,and feel so comfartable about the foreign life here. Through the book, I really get my way to enjoy everything of my traveling now.
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07-08-98 5 1\2
(Hide Review...)  Endearing and engaging are Susan Toth's adventures.
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In Susan Toth, via her My Love Affair with England, my husband and I found a kindred spirit and, as it turns out, a pen-pal and friend. Susan and her James make the twice-a-year journey from Minnesoa to England/Scotland/Wales and have lovingly shared the foibles, ecstasies and humour of all-things-British. Helpful advice abounds in all her books, but love of a dear England overflows her pages in this gem.
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12-04-97 5 0\1
(Hide Review...)  One of my favorites
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I absolutely loved this book. Ms. Toth's experiences so closely mirrored my own that I actually found myself in tears a few times!
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11-25-97 5 0\1
(Hide Review...)  Discover England, or remember what you love
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In this charming book, Susan Allen Toth offers a number of small glimpses of England, collected over her numerous trips. Some are quaint, some are spiritual, some are even unflattering.In them, however, the reader finds not only one woman's experience of touring England, but a panorama that conveys the essence of a country. If you've never been to England, you will have to go after reading this book. If you've been, Toth will remind you of what you love.
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05-15-97 4 0\1
(Hide Review...)  Joys on travel to the British Isles
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Anglophiles rejoice! This memoir recounts the numerous visits that the author has made to England. Country houses, gardens, sheep dog contests, historical sites, and badger sightings galore abound in these accounts. She even attempts to justify the impossible, that English food can be edible and good!. Don't believe me? Read her book. This is a welcome companion to Peter Mayle's "A Year in Provence"
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