Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Catching a Man
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5-STAR HIGHEST RATING: "An exceptional book"
Most single women have experienced the sinking feeling of fishing for a date from someone special without receiving so much as a nibble. It is enough to make women wonder if there is something wrong with their bait. Steve Nakamoto, a former communications/human relations instructor for Dale Carnegie & Associates, NLP personal development trainer for motivational expert Tony Robbins, and professional international tour director understands these feelings. He has written an intelligent, funny, and wise book for women who are looking to catch a guy---hook, line, and sinker. In this entertaining look at relationships, he compares men to fish who are secretly longing to be caught. Women, on the other hand, are wily yet compassionate anglers looking to reel in the big one. Men Are Like Fish will take readers on a fact-packed fishing trip where they will learn tips on how to initiate great relationships or enhance the ones they already have. The book is sweetly old-fashioned, yet wickedly on target. Nakamoto has also sprinkled zippy cartoons/illustrations and unusually helpful quotes throughout the book. While the title might imply a single-minded effort to drag an unsuspecting man into the net, the book is actually somewhat Zenlike. It will help women to improve their self-images, broaden their interests, and accentuate the unique qualities they possess that will naturally draw good relationships to them. Nakamoto also spends a good deal of time discussing the end of relationships. He shows women how to let go gracefully, with as little pain as possible, so that they can continue to grow without harboring bitterness. Steve uses several interesting examples from his own life, sharing many of his triumphs and failures with a good-natured sense of humor. Nakamoto shares one especially funny story about a tight jeans contest where he lost a shapely girlfriend/contestant to judge Clint Eastwood. He writes, "I consoled myself with the thought that Deanna must have had a tough choice: Clint Eastwood (People Weekly's 2001 #2 most popular screen actor of all time) or Steve Nakamoto? It could have gone either way, right?" Nakamoto also shares good, solid advice. One especially helpful area is "Favorite Fishing Holes: 101 Hot Spots Where the Big Ones Are Biting." It consists of a list of fun and inexpensive activities and places to explore that are bound to be interesting, even if they do not spark a new love affair. Among the many activities that Nakamoto recommends are going to art gallery openings, visiting wineries for wine tasting and tours, and taking city tours or day trips in one's own city or in a nearby town. Nakamoto does not guarantee eternal love for readers. However, both single women looking for that perfect catch and those seeking to recapture the romance of an exciting relationship will find great value here. Men Are Like Fish is guaranteed to give even the most jaded and discouraged romantic angler a new, more joyful perspective on the oldest sport in the world. --- Reviewed by ForeWordReviews.com |
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| 09-07-08 | 1 | (NA) |
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I bought this book based on the wonderful reviews here but I did have my reservations after reading the excerpt on Amazon. I should have trusted my gut. There's not much more to this book than the quotations, which are funny and a mix between insightful and obscure. There's almost no effort to explain the quotes and relate them to everyday experiences. There are a couple of really good lists about where to meet people but just those few lists are not worth purchasing the book. I will be returning the book to Amazon.
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| 08-26-08 | 3 | (NA) |
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FOR READERS WHO ENJOY ANYTHING LIGHT AND I DIDN'T
FIND IT HELPFUL PERHAPS FOR THE YOUNG DATER. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-18 11:09:42 EST)
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| 08-09-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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I have been engaged 12 times so I know something about men...What Steve Nakamoto says is basically true and he presents it in a very amusing easy to read style. This is the third time I am reading this book and I wish it was available on the Kindle, if I ever buy one.
For any woman who feels lost as to how to "catch" a man "fish," the central metaphor is true and it is very helpful in telling women what to do and what not to do. I never married because I became ill, however, now that my health is improved, despite my being middle aged I am not giving up! So I reading Steve's book again and planning to buy his other book: "Dating Rocks." I do wonder...if he knows so much, why isn't he happily married? Or does he know too much and knew how to avoid "taking the bait?" Either way, this book will help women of any way and you'll have fun reading it again and again. (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-18 11:09:42 EST)
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| 06-09-08 | 1 | (NA) |
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I wasn't expecting any major, life- or relationship-changing ideas in this book; at most, I thought I may be entertained by a fresh, tongue-in-cheek approach to a stale topic. What I got was bad writing and even worse quotations (reportedly meant to further illustrate the author's point), organized in a choppy, disjointed presentation that was apparently designed to distract the reader from the fact that the book contains little beyond a few helpful terms should one decide to take up fly-fishing. And the fish similes get old after page 12 (hell--after the title!). Save your money. And time (i.e., don't even bother borrowing a copy).
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| 03-31-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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From this book and put the "bait" on the hook!
Author Of: Black Women Deserve Better (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-09-18 11:09:42 EST)
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| 02-15-08 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Not only have I read "Men are like fish" I have had the pleasure of hearing Steve Nakamoto talk on the subject of relationships. Mr. Nakamoto's book captures your attention from the beginning and keeps your interest to the very end.
I gained new insights and used them to "lure" in my "big fish" husband. I would recommend "Men are like Fish" to every woman. If your in a relationship, follow the books advice and you'll improve it . If your single, GET HIS BOOK NOW and START FISHING. Peggy Walla Walla Wellness Center and Spa Los Alamitos, CA (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-04-01 09:27:53 EST)
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| 01-20-08 | 1 | (NA) |
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How on Earth did this book get 80+ 5 star reviews? It had nothing of substance but quotes. The fishing analogy was alright in the first few pages but then he compounds it in your head and leaves you wondering if he is insulting your intelligence.The only helpful tips on where to meet men were available on his website. Do not waste your money on this book.
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| 01-19-08 | 1 | 1\2 |
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How on Earth did this book get 80+ 5 star reviews? It had nothing of substance but quotes. The fishing analogy was alright in the first few pages but then he compounds it in your head and leaves you wondering if he is insulting your intelligence.The only helpful tips on where to meet men were available on his website. Do not waste your money on this book.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-02-15 15:15:15 EST)
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| 01-08-08 | 4 | (NA) |
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While this book doesn't answer all of the dating questions that every woman might ask, it does answer a lot of common questions from the male perspective. If you've read other books written by women or gotten "advice" from your female friends, it's time to buy this book because it's written by one of THEM. Steve knows why a guy might not call (there are many different reasons listed) or common mistakes that women make that can spook a guy right away. He is a credible source, and his answers make sense.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-20 11:32:01 EST)
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| 12-28-07 | 1 | (NA) |
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I edit self-help books for a living, so I know what I'm talking about when I say: "This book is in desperate need of an editor."
First of all, it's completely disorganized and entirely too pleased with the whole fishing metaphor thing. I can buy the fishing metaphor, but get to the point! Then the book takes "define your terms" to a whole new level. It has definitions of the words "net", "hook", and "fishing pole"! As if we don't all know what those words mean already. The book is written at about a 4th grade reading level. But then it stops there, it doesn't define the concepts we're really interested in, and offers no real, practical, useable advice. For instance, it says a woman needs to "set the hook", but doesn't explain what that means in practical terms. Thanks to the definition of what "set the hook" means in a fishing context, I get what he's trying to say (I think), but HOW do I "set the hook" with a guy? I have no idea, and this book doesn't help. It says things like "Work on your wiggle. Make sure the power of your wiggle significantly exceeds the impact of your early spooking." Huh? But what does that mean in the real world? There's no real explanation in the book - it's all vague metaphor. Even a woman well-versed in fishing wouldn't know how to put these concepts into practice in her actual life. What I've gotten from this book: A) a woman needs to be beautiful, skinny, well-read, morally upstanding, never be anything but absolutely cheerful and kind, a good conversationalist, have a nice-sounding voice, somehow discover what emotional strings to tug in a man, and then play on them as a concert harpist would (somehow we're supposed to know exactly what strings to play, and when)until the man is so fascinated with her he can't see straight (in other words, be superhuman and psychic, as well), and B) Steve thinks 'USA Today' is a high-quality newspaper (See my comment about the book's 4th-grade reading level!) *sigh* I guess it's back to the drawing board for me. And Steve, seriously, hire an editor! (Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-08 09:16:46 EST)
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| 12-12-07 | 1 | 0\1 |
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Way too many references to fish and fishing. I got the idea in the beginning but the messages were becomming lost with all the fish stuff.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2008-01-07 09:34:19 EST)
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| 11-21-07 | 2 | (NA) |
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If you are a woman who is trying to "catch a man", do not waste your precious man hunting time on this one. I found no practical advice in it whatsoever and it was only mildly entertaining. The premise of the book is that the fish metaphor alone will help you catch a man. I beg to differ.
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| 10-18-07 | 1 | (NA) |
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The awfulness of this book has inspired me to write my first Amazon review. Men Are Like Fish is so terrible on so many levels, I hardly know where to begin. First, the author is a horrible writer. In the first few chapters I found myself thinking "Who edited this thing?" The writing is extremely wordy; the book could take up less than half the current number of pages if it had been well-edited. The layout is disorganized and distracting, probably to try to fool into thinking the book has actual content. Second, it's mostly not even his writing! Every paragraph contains a direct quote from some other source or a uselss "proverb." Third, the book contains no real, concrete advice, just cliches and overly broad platitudes. Hey ladies, did you know you should be attractive and interesting if you want to find love? Mr. Nakamoto seems to think he is doing a great service by revealing these secrets. Fourth, the advice he does give is often quite offensive. He advises women not to seem smart, opinionated, or funny. No thank you! I think the book is summed up nicely when he advises women to read "a high quality daily newspaper like USA Today." Anyone who thinks USA Today is a quality newspaper has no business giving advice to anyone on how to be interesting. This book is worse than useless. It advises you not to seem like you have a problem with men, but makes me feel stabby toward the whole gender. Please save your money!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-10-23 09:16:45 EST)
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| 10-10-07 | 5 | (NA) |
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I loved this book so much, I sent an email to the author. I have never done that before. It is such a witty, intelligent and fun read. I learned a lot from this book. Buy this book! You will not be sorry. It is so entertaining and so full of good information. I am about to purchase Dating Rocks by the same author. Thank you Steve!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 01:24:53 EST)
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| 10-01-07 | 5 | 2\2 |
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I really enjoyed this book, both for its invaluable information and humor.
We can talk until we're blue in the face.... truly, who can reveal what men love in women more accurately than a man? Some of the revelations may not be considered in the realm of today's "political correctness", but where does pc get you in the real world, seriously? His intention to is to help, not judge. You have to ask yourself...is a few minutes of discomfort worth a potential lifetime of happiness? Men and women, though we do desire same things, are wired differently. We have to treat these differences with respect, rather than aversion, in order to succeed. Men are very observant regarding whether a woman is approving or disapproving of them. (Guess which attitude generates the more favorable response toward you?) He sets the fishing tone succinctly in Chapter 3, "The Metaphor", men are like fish. This makes it not only palatable, but useful throughout the rest of the book. Some more chapters: "Fishing Lessons", improve your chances with preparation, "Beginners Luck", recapture your lost innocence, "The Bait", make your attraction more powerful, "The Hook", use only the most secure devices, "The Big Fish", decide exactly what you want to catch, "Fishing Holes", invest your time in the best spots, "The Cast", don't spook away men with bad approaches, etc. And alot more goodies. One thing he stresses throughout is to embrace your femininity. Once you do this, men can, too. Face it...too many women have jettisoned their womanly essence, much to the extreme disappointment of men. Opposites define eachother. My best to all of you....happy landing! (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 01:24:53 EST)
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| 08-14-07 | 5 | 5\7 |
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This is great book. Every woman should read it. You will be surprised how iformative this book is!
But you must read another new besteller which I highly recommend - "How to be a Super Hot Woman: 339 Tips to Make Every Man Fall in Love with You and Every Woman Envy You" by Mandy Simons These books are fascinating! (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-12-15 01:24:53 EST)
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| 07-23-07 | 5 | 2\2 |
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it's simple and entertaining, you learn and realize through the analogy of fishing mechanism, which makes this book more entertaining as supposed to other typical standard "text book" style. I also like his writing style, short and concise, and to the point, it makes you realize many things while reading it. The author has included many great proverbs from all countries and all times, some of them are exceptionally valuable and worthwhile. I have to say this is one of the few books that I find entertaining to read, at the same time, enlightening.
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| 07-08-07 | 5 | (NA) |
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some good strategies to get the one you really want. unfortunaltely two have to agree!
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| 06-23-07 | 2 | (NA) |
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All the author really does is explain how men are like fish. He gives many examples (I had no idea there would be so many), but none were really helpful or applicable to life (unless I was suddenly given a pop quiz relating men to fish). I think I ended up throwing this book in the trash.
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| 06-14-07 | 5 | 2\2 |
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I've read almost every single dating book on the market and this have got to be the best! It's simply an outstanding book, you are doing yourself a disservice if you don't read it.
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| 05-23-07 | 5 | 1\3 |
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Steve's book was an enjoyable and light read explaining what one should bring on a fishing trip. Made me laugh. His friendly pat on the back will get you smiling and ready to recognize a good catch. Wear sunblock. :)
(Review Data Last Updated: 2007-07-10 06:47:10 EST)
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| 04-07-07 | 1 | 4\4 |
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Yikes, this book was so poorly written, that it was actually painful to read.
The fact that he is still single is the first clue that he should NOT have written a single word of advice to women about men. Yee gads....what a nightmare his books are. I bought both "Men are like Fish" and "Dating Rocks" and honestly, the amount of truly useful information, from him, in both combined could have been written in one paragraph....... Avoid men like me and here is why...... Both books were extremely cumbersome and disjointed, and almost impossible to read. I suspect he might be ADHD, with lots of enthusiasm and energy, but no ability to channel any of that into something cohesive and actually readable. (I kind of blame his editor for not steering him in the right direction...away from even attempting these books...shame on the editor) It didn't appear that he could follow a single train of thought for more than half a page. There also didn't seem to be much original thought (and a plethoria of other people's)contained in either book, other than his lame anecdotes. The books were ridiculously condescending and insulting to any woman's intelligence. I fly fish, have for years and it is quite apparent that he doesn't fish. And for him to use fishing as an analogy as if he was an expert?...Not OK Three words sum up my critic, painful, painful, painful. There are several very good, brilliant really, books out there that people may want to take a look at that are extremely well written, readable and contain wonderful advice. "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo "Why You're Still Single" by Evan Marc Katz and Linda Holmes "Man Magnet" by Romy Miller I do believe the author had good intentions (but let's not forget about making $$$)however I think the execution was way off mark. Not everyone can or should write. And Steve Nakamoto is one of those people that can't and shouldn't. (Review Data Last Updated: 2007-04-25 11:13:27 EST)
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| 04-04-07 | 5 | 0\1 |
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An honest male point of view as to what they look for in a mate. Things all women should know!
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| 04-03-07 | 5 | (NA) |
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An honest male point of view as to what they look for in a mate. Things all women should know!
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| 03-23-07 | 5 | 7\8 |
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I'm skeptical of self help books, especially when it comes to dating. I truly enjoyed reading this though. As all dating books, there were some points that are somewhat obvious if you know anything at all about men. I personally got a lot out of the points made about not scaring the fish away. I have some personality traits that can be perceived in ways I hadn't considered. Having an honest male viewpoint was really helpful and made me more aware of my actions and self-portrayal.
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| 03-15-07 | 4 | 6\8 |
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This book hits it right on the mark; if you want a man, you have to learn how to play their game. I don't think I could have summed up the similarities between men and fish any better myself. Men do get scared off easily, so you have to "hook" them with a 1, 2 punch while you've got their attention. And let's face it, their attention span isn't that long.
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| 03-14-07 | 4 | 2\2 |
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This book hits it right on the mark; if you want a man, you have to learn how to play their game. I don't think I could have summed up the similarities between men and fish any better myself. Men do get scared off easily, so you have to "hook" them with a 1, 2 punch while you've got their attention. And let's face it, their attention span isn't that long.
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| 03-13-07 | 4 | 8\8 |
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I've read this book, and it confirms what many of us know, but don't always want to believe. It takes focus and effort to find the right man, and there are no short cuts. Steve is right when he says that to be successful in not only dating, but finding the right long-term partner, we must first have our own house in order. Nothing could be more true. "Big fish" go for the best bait. Period. It's good to see a man's perspective on what men find attractive and what can lure them into a conversation, and ultimately a relationship. Thanks, Steve.
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This particular book may work for some women, but I can't imagine how. I was expecting a book with insightful hints on comforable & convenient ways to meet interesting men, creative ideas for conversation starters, and possibly where all the 'keepers' are hiding out. Maybe I shouldn't take it out on the author the lack of quality men to choose from, but I found this book to be quite trivial, with empty advice. The tone throughout this book focuses on how women should modify or tone down certain attributes of their personalities to attract a man. As if a man is someone that women must chase, compete for, and behave around. This metaphorical, superficial, elementary book offers nothing in the way of seeking out a meaningful and lasting connection with a quality, dynamic and compassionate partner. It's a feeble attempt to groom and tailor 'woman' to suit 'man.'
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| 12-31-06 | 4 | 5\5 |
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The fishing analogy is very cute! The book is written in a relaxed, easy style -- very fast reading. I couldn't put it down. And, without being lectured to I didn't realize how much important information I was getting. I learned about all the things I've done wrong so far! It will definitely help me for the next one. I highly recommend this book. Thank you, Steve!
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In all honesty, this book isn't worth it. The author basically advises that it's best to "not lack" in any area of your life to attract the most desirable men. And after the first couple of pages, the constant fishing analogies begins to wear more than a little thin. Spend your hard earned money elsewhere.
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This book is simple minded, insults men, and even insults women. If you really want to read something, read "Why Men Love Bitches" and you'll do better. His lame advice abd fishing abstacts are just silly. He contradicts himself on almost every page, and I don't even belive he had a shot at a lady who dumped him in favor of Clint Eastwood. Sure....
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| 10-01-06 | 5 | 10\10 |
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I'm a recently divorced 50-something-year-old woman. I only vaguely remember what dating is all about/like, and felt I needed a 'brush-up course' before tackling the now (increasingly frightening) dating world. I chose "Men are Like Fish..." because it was a cute title, and I was intrigued by the fact that it is written from a MAN's perspective. Being manipulative, coy, or false in any way does not figure in to Mr. Nakamura's advice. This refreshingly honest book advises leading with your brain, but following with your heart - advice that I have given my daughter - but had forgotten for myself. I'm sending this book to my daughter ASAP, as it's really about being happy and sharing that appropriately and safely with interesting men.
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| 09-22-06 | 5 | (NA) |
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Steve's book would have shocked me if I hadn't read 'The Rules' a few years back. All of my relationship mistakes were finally clearly explained. Steve's book adds tremendous credibility--the man's perspective. His book is fun and easy to read and contains many practical ideas to help a woman find true love.
Author of THE TRUTH ABOUT CAFFEINE (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-09-22 17:48:43 EST)
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The title sounds so cute and since it is written by a man we think that he knows the real secrets of how to hook a guy. But among the cartoons and learning how us women have to do all the work, the author gives mostly examples about his own personal failed attempts to hook a woman. The still-single author offers up story after story from his personal life about he has gone to all the dating clubs, websites, dining groups, health clubs and trips to meet women and uses his experience as a guide. The story he cites as being a tour guide and complaining to his bus load of tourists how a girl dumped him and he is so alone was a bit pathetic. He was supposed to be looking after these tourists and they were consoling him while he was drowning in his own pity. If the author cannot find love then he should not be telling us how to do so. Man Magnet and How to Meet & Marry Mr. Right are much better books, written by women, who followed their own advice and got married lickety split. The more I read the more embarrassed I felt for the poor little fellow. The "fish" book has cute concepts and tells where to meet men but doesn't tell you where the single men are, the ladies' books do. So I tossed the stinker back into the water and recommend you do as well. Are you looking to meet loads of men or get married?
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| 08-20-06 | 2 | (NA) |
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The author of this book tells about how he has done just about every dating and singles idea on the planet looking for love: joining singles groups, singles tours, giving advice, etc. and never seems to hold onto any girl he meets, not even for a short time. You get the feeling that the author is about the most desperate man on the planet. The book information might be credible but the author (and his photo) lead you to believe he is a failure at getting a woman to even talk to him, let alone marry him. Women should do all the work? He seems to think so. The title is cute, nice cartoons and the concepts are interesting but Man Magnet by Romy Miller was extremely powerful for me and after reading Miller's book men were coming up to me and stuffing their phone numbers in my hand on the very first day. Men turn and look at me everywhere I go thanks to Miller. And now men do the chasing. For Mr. Nakamoto's book, Men Are Like Fish, is an earnest attempt to help women but the author is no women's magnet and yet he is claiming expertise. It may work for other women but after reading story after story about how he can't seem to keep a woman interested in him and even whines to strangers and customers how women don't like him I was too turned off to even finish the book.
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| 08-03-06 | 5 | 8\9 |
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I loved this book and Mr. Nakamoto is really giving us women the keys to the kingdom. Men Are Like Fish should not be overlooked. It is filled with many "cheat sheets" that you can use to quickly check the pulse of your current relationship (or of the current man in your life). If, after having compared the relationship to Mr. N's key points, you still think your man is worth spending more time with, then you can give a little slack on the line but you'd probably want to check back in a week or two to check the temperature of the waters. If the waters haven't changed, then you have your answer and you should jump ship as fast as you can or you're headed for the falls. I see no problem with having this book around, it can also be used to measure your other relationships. Many of the items on his lists, you may already know in your heart; but, wouldn't it help to have it handy to remind you what's really important to consider when you want the relationship to last a long time? If you can put up with the constant references and metaphors to fishing, this book is very easy to read. (I can't seem to get into the other guy's book, He's Just Not Into You.) Buy Men Are Like Fish, you won't regret it. It's worth the tiny investment. It's your happiness that's at stake here after all.
(Review Data Last Updated: 2006-10-19 14:32:47 EST)
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| 07-28-06 | 1 | 2\7 |
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This is the worst book on the subject that I have read. It is not written well - or even easy to read for that matter and with advice like have good skin, have a pleasant voice and don't have an opinion that is contradictory to your date's, Nakamoto's book is shallow and unhelpful. Other books on the subject like He's Just Not That Into You are much more realistic, empowering and helpful.
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| 06-24-06 | 5 | 1\1 |
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Inside this book is excellent advice for women who need help in the man department. While it does have a few similarities to "The Rules" it is all in all of itself a book that is relatable and understandable. So, if you need to catch some fish, this is an excellent book to start with. Also, I would suggest "WHy Men Love..." and "Man Magnet".
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| 06-10-06 | 4 | 4\6 |
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A real page turner. If you're jumping back into the dating game, it has a lot of information that will just pump you up and get you ready. If you're already dating this book will seem like a bunch of fluff. Still it's a good thing to go over to keep you up on the game. Don't buy this book; borrow it. It would be nice to read a book by Nakamoto geered towards men but I hope in that book he knows the difference between a metaphor and a simile.
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| 05-27-06 | 5 | 5\7 |
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I loved this book!!! Isn't this just what we all hope for when we are trolling the otherwise murky waters of relating to the opposite sex in the dating pool? A guy friend ... a guy friend who is straight !!! ( not that we don't appreciate our gay men friends a lot too )
This book helps us to use our heads as well as our hearts and to think through some of the things which will help us to find and to keep a healthy relationship. It offers good solid advice, specific advice ! Not politically correct advice though ! Steve Nakamoto sounds like a great guy, the kind we would all love to have to talk to when we are caught up in our confusion over dating. I get the impression that he truly cares about the people he writes this book for ... PLUS ... he is smart, funny, charming and a man of fine character. What better advisor could we ask for? Barring God, who also has the power to actually intervene ... well, Steve Nakamoto is my pick ! THANK YOU STEVIE ! (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-10-19 14:32:47 EST)
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| 05-25-06 | 1 | (NA) |
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Luckily, I didn't pay for this book, got it at the library. It is horribly written, he says the same thing over and over again, but doesn't give any specific tips except the same old out of date dating advise. Save your money!
(Review Data Last Updated: 2006-05-25 16:47:17 EST)
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| 05-08-06 | 5 | 1\2 |
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This books teaches you step by step . Its amazingly easy to read as well...
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| 04-19-06 | 5 | 10\11 |
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"Even in today's sophisticated world, some things change slowly, if ever at all. This is especially true when it comes to the traditional game of love that is still played between the majority of women and men." ~pg. 29
Steve Nakamoto has written a highly enjoyable book for women who are seeking true love with a man who is committed to his partner's greater good. Men Are Like Fish is so enlightening in regards to relationships; it might be the only book you initially need to realign your focus as you journey into the ocean of romantic depths. Not only will you realize what you have been longing for in a relationship, you will now be able to apply universal wisdom to enhance your relationship. Why don't men call back and how are men spooked? How do you let go of past disappointments and embrace future hopes and dreams? What are the main ingredients you dream of in a romantic relationship? How do you create a situation of deep emotional attachment? What are the main qualities men are looking for in women? How do allusive men act and how do you get their attention? How powerfully do you attract men? Take the "bait self-quiz"...very amusing and there is also a "Big Fish Test." Where do you find the Big Fish? A list of Favorite Fishing Spots is an amazing resource and goes way beyond meeting men in typical bars, etc. Why are conversational skills the bond of companionship? Do you appreciate the man you are interested in - what is the depth of the attraction? "Men can be very charming with their manly strengths and boyish personalities. But underneath a man's charm lies a foundation of character. If consistent, lasting, and fulfilling love is your objective, character is one of your only reliable indicators." ~pg. 105 As a woman I found Steven Nakamoto's writing highly entertaining and the quotes throughout the book were well chosen and very appropriate for his topic. Are you ready to move from passive observer to enlightened relationship goddess? This book draws on timeless wisdom, well-researched personal development advice and an advanced level of empowering insight. The author is especially well read and seems to have a deep interest in women finding a life that is emotionally fulfilling and creatively satisfying. Men are Like Fish is not only for women who want to find a new romantic relationship, it is also for women who want to maintain a high level of emotional satisfaction in their current relationship. 100 Stars and beyond... ~The Rebecca Review So impressed with this book it made my eyes sparkle! :) (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-07-07 14:35:18 EST)
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| 04-14-06 | 1 | 7\11 |
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I purchased this book based on the reviews posted. However, it didn't live up to my expectations. What little advice he actually gives is basic common sense. He says this is what every woman needs to know about catching a man. Well, if you're in need of this very basic instruction, finding a man should not be your first priority. Also, he has padded the book heavily with quotes. I guess this is an attempt to compensate for the lack of original material. If you eliminated all of the quotes and references to other works, you'd be left with little more than a pamplet. If you are a single woman, and you are serious about finding a nice guy remember patience is a virtue. Don't waste your money on this one, unless you're in the market for a book of relationship quotes. This book gets one star only because of the clever fishing metaphor used.
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| 04-12-06 | 5 | 2\3 |
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What an inspiring book! Lots of good ideas and tools for catching that "elusive big fish." The book is filled with great analogies, quotes, and proverbs from all over the world, which makes it a fun and easy, but very educational read. I've recommended this book to all my single girlfriends. Most of them have already read it and enjoyed it as well. And now we have fun exploring lots of new fishing holes together! Thank you Steve! :-)
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| 03-30-06 | 5 | 4\4 |
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Inside this book is excellent advice for women who need help in the man department. While it does have a few similarities to "The Rules" it is all in all of itself a book that is relatable and understandable. So, if you need to catch some fish, this is an excellent book to start with. Also, I would suggest "WHy Men Love..." and "Man Magnet".
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| 03-27-06 | 4 | 1\2 |
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I really enjoyed this book. I highly recommend it for the women who are still seeking Mr. Right.
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| 03-22-06 | 5 | 1\2 |
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I enjoyed reading this book. It was a little hard to get started...lots of quotes, but after a few chapters you realize that this each chapter is set up similarly, and you can settle in and enjoy. I had to read this book with a highlighter just to really capture and keep some of the really good statements and quotes that are packed in this book. I found out I have been doing it right...maybe I needed the confirmation. But it was nice to read this from a man's perspective. I would recommend this book...and have, to my single/divorced friends.
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| 03-19-06 | 3 | 3\4 |
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It's good to have a dating book written by a man for a change. Much of the advice is clearly very honest, even if it may feel a little harsh at times, and is basically very sound: be attractive, be positive, get yourself out and about, don't try too hard. You'll probably recognise it as excellent common sense, wrapped up in an elaborate fishing metaphor. And he's dead right about one very important thing: there's absolutely no point wasting time on tiddlers. Minuses: The list of ways women can spook men is useful, but also quite frightening. How can you relax and be yourself on a date when you're desperately trying to remember not to do any of the 101 things that will send a man running for cover? There are too many quotations from other books and famous people littering this book, all the way through. Some one sentence quotations are blown up to fill an entire page, which smacks suspiciously of struggling to find enough original material for a whole book. The author includes a long list of "fishing holes" - places you should go to meet a prize catch. He starts by specifying that they should be places with great atmosphere. And he then lists browsing for DIY equipment at Home Depot.... Conclusion: If you've never bought a dating book before, try this and you won't go wrong. But if you already own the Rules and similar books, the advice will already be familiar and the padding may irritate: unless you have cash to burn you might want to invest in a new lipstick instead... (Review Data Last Updated: 2006-07-07 14:35:18 EST)
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